whats wrong with wanting a little respect?

Question

I am constantly im-ed by foreign dudes, especially indian ones. i have no problem with that, but i do have a problem with the fact that so many of them are disrespectful and perverted. i dont know why they cant go get a woman in their own country. several of them have flat out told me that they think american women are whores. well NEWSFLASH! I'm NOT and I know many of you girls arent either! So next time a creeps messages you, dont just ignore him, report him pathetic butt as spam. and that goes for al guys, cuz i know american dudes get that way too. it just seems to be a lot more foreign dudes. nothing wrong with lovin ur neighbor, but lets teach them that dispresecting us isnt cool and that white girls arent an easy lay

Answer 1

You got something against Indians or maybe you are another one of those hate mongers, trying to disrespect certain people just to gain attention. You been shouting about it for the last hour. Didnt you get enough replies in your previous questions? I appologized on the behalf of my fellow Indians in your previous question but now I think I shouldnt have and by the way why are you giving this question a racial turn. Its got nothing to do with WHITE girls. If these guyz are nasty they are with all women including brown and black not just with White girls.

Answer 2

I have noticed the same trend, and I am not about to go bashing Indian men especially since so many Indian men are NOT that way, but in the place where I work, the same guys who are probably sending inappropriate IMs are also treating the employees at my place of business like something best scraped off of the bottom of a shoe. I don't think its so much the idea that American/White women are whores so much as Americans in general are the retarded kids on the block. As for what to do about it, I absolutely agree that one needs to stand up to this kind of behavior and confront it in effective ways. Reporting such IMs as spam is definitely one way to confront the problem, but unfortunately it fixes nothing. Guys like this can get new IDs quite easily or send the same harrassing messages from a different IP address. It's a step in the right direction, but ultimately, I think that the real solution is going to be for all Americans to work for a positive shift in American culture, especially in what we DO show the world.

Of course, I am not a woman, and I will not presume to suggest that I'm offering a viable solution here...but as a black guy AND a gay guy whose partner is a member of a different culture I've become VERY aware of the images that Non-Americans are seeing and what we are showing the world is an ugly, scary thing. If we are to demand respect from foreigners, the first thing we're gonna have to do is respect our fellow Americans. There isn't enough of that going on. If we don't respect each other, there's no way that we can fairly expect anyone else to respect us...

Oh, and as a guy, I'm basically putting this here because I know a lot of guys are gonna look at this question and read the answers stated. Some are upstanding respectful guys who honestly care a whole lot about stuff that's going on, and some are kind of on the fence, thinking that if they don't notice a problem that it might not exist. But mostly, as a guy, I am hoping that somehow, this message reaches the more crude of our national bretheren and actually gives them something to think about...Because ultimately it raises the question, if a gay guy can have respect for women, what excuse do disrespectful straight men have for their behavior, especially since it ruins their chances of ever enjoying intimate companionship with a woman?

Answer 3

Do your self a prefer and hit upon a greater good female as much as now and or carry close out with. existence is a lot too short, as is college, to be connected with a drama queen! Lemme wager there are a lot of different females you have an interest in. have exciting, that's what college is for no longer this drama fest BS!

Answer 4

you deserve respect i'm a guy and i hate the filthy questions asked here and the disrepct shown to women. i got beaten up for stopping a guy from hitting his g/f and she's the girl i love and she told me not to hurt him and anyone who disrespects women deserves to be disrepected by a gang of decent guys who are alway the ones who finish last with the girls

Answer 5

Their culture is different, males rule and females are crap. What is it a fad nowadays to talk to Indian dudes? I see it everywhere on here. Try talking face to face with people, it will get you farther

Answer 6

MOST MEN DON`T KNOW HOW TO APPROACH A WOMAN.
NOR BE A FRIEND TO THEM. 3RD WORLD COUNTRY MEN ARE PERVERTS. LOOK AT THERE WOMEN..SO I GUESS THEY THINK THE AMERICAN WAY IS TO TALK NASTY TO AMERICAN WOMEN.. YOU HAVE MY RESPECT..SOME THINGS ARE BETTER LEFT UNSAID.. I FIND MYSELF BITTING MY TOUNGE ALOT. FLIRTING AND BEING FOUL MOUTHED ARE 2 DIFFERENT THINGS...

Answer 7

You deserve all the respect you can get! I agree with you, report them, let them have it! Good luck!

Answer 8

i agree with you. there are a lot of perverts in this world. they should be taught some lesson. way to go, girl!

Answer 9

i havent had that problem.... though some have tried to engage in inappropriate chat... i just tell them i'm not interested... and either they move on or we change the subject....

Answer 10

this is your right . but if some one abuse you . you can ignore him ,as you this is not a difficult task whom you know and want to chat you can do otherwise leave and ignore .