how do you strike up a convo with someone that you are interested in. I have a hard time talking to females sometimes...there's this girl who works security at my new job...how should i approach her, or should i
2006-08-04 22:36:05 · 8 answers · asked by Yahooligan85 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
just approach her and give a little smile..maybe she will start talking with you, then you just go from there..if not just say hello...and if the conversation starts...and she is smiling..ask her out for a drink or a cup of coffee after work. once you start talking it will be easy..just getting started is the hard part.
2006-08-05 01:50:10 · answer #1 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Start by saying something about why you approached her. "You always look so good when you wear your hair like that? Do you do it yourself?" Anything that attracts you to her, that you could ask her about. Then let it flow naturally from there.
2006-08-05 13:54:16 · answer #2 · answered by michael941260 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may want to start a conversation like Hi ho are you and see how she is, then maybe talk to her a few times to see if she likes women! Good luck!
2006-08-05 05:40:12 · answer #3 · answered by amber m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it girl. Find a question you are comfortable with asking... then ask it. Small talk works wonders.
2006-08-05 05:42:24 · answer #4 · answered by Wolf_Girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u have to be careful. what are the rules about co-worker relationships at your job? if its ok, then just be natural. like, hey I like your... (shirt, new hairdo, car). Or, gee, this day is just dragging, what do you do to wind down after work? do you have a bf?
2006-08-05 05:41:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
compliment on something about her. tell her how good she seems to be at her job, or how lovely she looks today, or how nice it is to see such a cheerful person at work everyday, etc.
all love compliments....
2006-08-05 05:43:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Getting with" people from work, in never a good idea.
2006-08-05 05:41:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be friendly..extra friendly..she will pick up on it and the rest will fall into place..
2006-08-05 09:36:57 · answer #8 · answered by Quasi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋