Some people misunderstood my actions and some say they don't like my way of saying my feelings..but i'm trying to be natural..it's just that some people really don't like me...they're not really too many but i don't want them to hate me forever...some even hate me beacause my boyfriend was their all-time crush!...but i cant help it if i'm the one he loves..so what can i do??
2006-08-04 22:34:50 · 20 answers · asked by Marygail B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Ignore those people. You cannot win all of the time, and not everyone is going to like you.. that is just the way that it is.
2006-08-04 22:38:51 · answer #1 · answered by kimberly b 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If that's the case, V R helpless. U can't do anything & need not do too. They R the one @ receiving end @ the end, who hates not only U but anyone for no reason. Just live as U like, ignoring such people.
2006-08-05 05:46:16 · answer #2 · answered by JD 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its REALLY hard but you have to learn to live with them and ignore them. All my life I have seemed to rub some people up the wrong way! I think its because I say what i feel and some people don't like to hear it. You have to realise that you cant please all the people all the time - just some people some of the time. Otherwise you'll end up burning yourself out mentally - like I have.
2006-08-05 05:45:23 · answer #3 · answered by Squiddly Diddly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing..I have a problem similar to that... I taught my wife to drive, convinced her she should go to college, her and i have made a home for eachother, we are struggling financially but we always have food on the table and our bills payed... But since i have panic disorder, and i have a hard time leaving my house, my wife's entire family has this opinion of me that i cannot change. Ive only met them a few times and never said anything disrespectful.. But their opinion of me is, that i hold my wife back, because i have panic disorder... They know nothing of our lives, and i have tried to defend myself. But when people have an opinion on something they don't know or don't understand, it is not easy to set them straight, even though i have tried.
2006-08-05 05:42:45 · answer #4 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You do nothing. Continue to be yourself. Everyone is NOT going to like you no matter what you say or do. And if they dont like you that is not your problem, it's theirs. If it has something to do with your boyfriend choosing you over them, well..they are just jealous and nothing you will ever say or do (outside of breaking up with your boyfriend) will ever change their opinion, so just be yourself.
2006-08-05 05:45:36 · answer #5 · answered by philly_q_t_2004 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like they're jealous and if this is the case, who wants them as friends anyway, they should be happy for you, not being mean. Be proud of who you are and what decisions you make in life!
2006-08-05 05:40:16 · answer #6 · answered by Emma 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore them.
2006-08-05 05:39:28 · answer #7 · answered by Gersin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not bother about others if you are not harming any one , keep enjoying your life on your way .
2006-08-05 05:38:52 · answer #8 · answered by your noon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if some body hates u without having proper reason then i thinks its there problem, why should u bother about them..?? so my dear sweety be cool ....
2006-08-05 05:42:32 · answer #9 · answered by thatiskishore 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont worry about them, just stay away from them.
2006-08-05 05:37:58 · answer #10 · answered by DL 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋