I dont stalk him or anything but i know he is bi and he has all the things i ever wanted in a guy.
In a way im kinda like a dork, and he has the same dorky qualities as me! lol
he is sweet, charming, loves videogames, funny, HOT, and smart.
he is a very genuine guy, and we do happen to be friends, but i just get so speecheless and nervous around him and my stomach suddenly get butterflies.
we do talk and i just go crazy (in the head) when he looks into my eyes. i usually try my best to avoid the awkward silences between us
he has so many guys and girls who tries to go out with him and he just rejects them.
and i like him to the point where its jsut sickening
how can i get over this guy... i cant stop thiking about him.
I really think im in love....
2006-08-04 22:22:43 · 9 answers · asked by Darmcc15 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
i dont wanna mess things up between us
2006-08-04 22:31:21 · update #1
If he is rejecting all others, but is your friend, why don't you ask him why he doesn't want to go out with any of them. Then at least you will be better informed on why it could never be a possibility for you.
Did you ever think maybe he likes you too, and that may be why he's turning the others away? You said you were friends, and you are sharing eye contact that makes you awkward and giddy.
Ask him why he doesn't date others, and if you know that reason, it may make it easier for you to drop the crush with respect to his feelings.
2006-08-04 22:33:35 · answer #1 · answered by Craptacular Wonderment 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
have you let him know you really like him? If itturns out that he has no interest in you, it is time to look elsewhere for some new friends and activities to keep you busy.And don't hang out where you think he might be. Very painful. If it doesn't work out the way you wanted, just realize tthere will be painfiul memories for a while. We can't always have what we want. By the way, this happens no matter how old you are. And it doesn't hurt any less. Been there, done that.
2006-08-04 22:39:44 · answer #2 · answered by reme_1 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL you sound like Marcelas talking about Kaysar on big brother all stars! Anyway I would ask him how he felt about you and you had a funny thought about you and he possibly becoming closer "friends" and see where it leads. If he says he isn't in to you that way, well just go out and find a hotter guy There are too many weenies in the oscar mayer family to be worried about the one you can't have! Good luck!
2006-08-04 22:33:30 · answer #3 · answered by amber m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know what to tell you. I'll tell you my story. I used to have my own business selling sterling silver jewelry.( I was married at the time.) This one particular guy kept coming and buying jewelry from me. I love gemstones,and he also loved them,and he was funny and good looking with nice hands,and I thought we kinda connected . I had this huge crush on him for about a year. Well,I got divorced,so,my business ended,but the last day I was there,he came to my booth,and I handed him my business card,told him I was single again,and asked him to call me. We've been dating now for the last 7 months,and he never had a clue I was flirting with him,lol. So,you never know,but be careful what you wish for,you might just get it,and find out Mr Right is actually Mr Right NOW,lol. Good luck,goforit
2006-08-05 13:49:25 · answer #4 · answered by dragonfly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah...I artwork in an airport present save, so hotties are available each and all of the time and flirt with me, and it completely sucks because of fact i'm continually the two taken, or they stay like in a different united states of america!
2016-11-03 22:36:45 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you told him how you feel? Has he turned you down? Is he with someone else?
Keep the friendship. You've got to be real with your self and stop putting up false hopes.
Best way to get over a guy is to keep getting under new ones.
2006-08-05 03:19:48 · answer #6 · answered by Think.for.your.self 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't need to get over the crush. remember it as a sweet memory. of course you will feel pain but believe me, you will cherish his thoughts as a memory. moreover, you cannot get it over with unless you get another crush. remember any old heroes on whom you used to get a crush, but as soon as some modern day dashing hero comes, your crush get transferred ? same way here...
2006-08-05 01:55:15 · answer #7 · answered by neelakh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gee, I don't know brother but the story is terrific.
I guess that you should just approach him and tell him your feelings.
2006-08-04 22:58:20 · answer #8 · answered by Cymalon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in time it will pass... or just tell him you want to fool around and see what happens
2006-08-04 22:27:44 · answer #9 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋