without a private detective there are way to costy
2006-08-04 22:18:05 · 18 answers · asked by purdy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If you think he's cheating... he probably is!
2006-08-04 22:21:34 · answer #1 · answered by Audio God™ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The phone is the one good way of checking up on a man to see if hes cheating or talking to someone he shouldn't be. I caught men out doing this.
Don't act suspicious or he'll never leave his phone around. Wait til hes in the shower or something and then get his phone. Don't just check the obvious texts, look at the log book feature on the phone that logs incoming and outgoing calls and the numbers as well as the times of the calls. If there are a number of unusual numbers/names on calls that are being made/received at times when you are apart, make a note of them on some paper. From then on it is a process of elimination - ring these numbers up anonymously to see if any are women and just hang up. If any one them ARE, you can probably bet your bottom dollar that they are cheating or at least doing something they really shouldn't be doing with another woman (flirting even). When you have the suspect number, confront him to see how he reacts. If its nothing, he will make you feel okay about what you have done as long as you apologise profusely and say you wanted to make sure as things haven't felt right recently. If he is guilty he will make you feel really bad and totally over react to the situation and turn the tables around to make you out to be the bad guy. That is when you will smell a rat!
Good luck chick!
2006-08-05 05:34:28 · answer #2 · answered by Squiddly Diddly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well u need to really make sure u have reason to think hes cheating.supposably a very financial guy.so what u need to do is try to figure when the best times for him to cheat and when he goes u just check on him.if he does it at ur house surprise visit will kill him.good luck
2006-08-05 05:26:54 · answer #3 · answered by SLICK 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel so strongly about it you should confront him ,Why bother with anyone else ,just go to him and ask him why you feel he is, maybe threes no proof of any indiscretions but you sill have the feeling that something is wrong in your relationship with him and want reassured that everything is OK ...
2006-08-05 05:52:56 · answer #4 · answered by Linda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dnt think about it,it does not help ur relationship incase he is cheating on u, there is not u can do abt it,than to leave,so i will adivce u keep it out from u mind,maybe he is not really cheating on u it might just be ur instinct,
2006-08-05 05:35:25 · answer #5 · answered by chigirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as a woman we have our own instinct, you know if your fella is cheating not unless you're a jealous freak and you always think you're partner is cheating.
2006-08-05 05:24:36 · answer #6 · answered by wala_lang 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just dump him now and save yourself the mental torture. if you have suspicions then you dont trust him. there is something about his behaviour that is putting doubt in your head, is this really how you would want to live? it is his loss!
2006-08-05 05:25:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to www.womansavers.com
they have lots of advice, and signs to look for .... and can tell you just what you need to know to be your own detective....
2006-08-05 05:21:24 · answer #8 · answered by Resasour 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
then prove it yourself...if a priv8 detectve is costy......try catching him on act....that's all i can say...
2006-08-05 05:55:55 · answer #9 · answered by Marygail B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best way is to handel it camly and honestly....
make sure you are first ready to face his answer and the consequences of you question..
2006-08-05 05:23:05 · answer #10 · answered by curious 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't have to prove it. If you think he is cheating, he is cheating.
2006-08-05 05:22:03 · answer #11 · answered by Alex 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋