I saw this in a movie...in which the woman says so to a man.Coz i have done this quite a few times and was wondering whether other women also feel the same.I really was a lil suprised when she says this in the movie coz i thought it was jsut for fun.Wot do u think? Also he pulls and tugs at my hair and literally man handles my head when he's bout to blow..is this normal?
2006-08-04 21:57:59 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Beauty & Style ➔ Skin & Body
The movie is vanilla sky
2006-08-04 22:06:05 · update #1
1) You are entitled to be with someone forever when you are in a long term monagomous relationship.
2) Yep, that is normal, as far as I can tell.
2006-08-04 22:05:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There really is nothing that you can do to be "entitled to be with that person for good". You can't truly own people and are certainly never entitled to, and one of you will eventually die, thus cutting off this hypothetical ownership so that kind of kills the for good statement.
BTW, if you want to form a loving relationship with someone for the rest of your life, I suggest first knowing and liking yourself because even if you do find Mr. Wonderful the only person you are guaranteed to be with at the end of your life is yourself.
Also, the chick who said that in the movie was pretty psychotic you may recall, and the main character was pretty messed up too. I wouldn't take that movie too seriously if I were you.
2006-08-05 05:25:31 · answer #2 · answered by DawnL 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you do anything sexual with anyone then you are entitled to be with him or her for good, but that doesn't mean he or she will honor that automatically. People are free to make their own choices, so if your guy chooses to not be with you then there's nothing you can do, although that would be kind of crappy of him. If you are looking for a serious relationship with a guy who respects you my advice would be to hold off on doing anything sexual until you've been dating for at least a month. That may seem like a while, but if he's willing to wait then you know he's not only after sex.
Oh, and it's totally normal for a guy to "man-handle" you during oral sex. If you don't like it though, just tell him to be more gentle with you next time :o)
2006-08-05 05:16:44 · answer #3 · answered by snpdrgon84 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't take what's said in movies as the gospel truth, luv. Trust me, I've swallowed my fair share of boys and it definitely doesn't mean you have to stay with them, nor has it ever meant that. So don't worry. Also, I might ease up on the swallowing if I were you. That's a good way to catch a sexually transmitted disease - you CAN get those from oral sex.
2006-08-05 05:35:40 · answer #4 · answered by Kelly D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Penelope Cruz plays a psychopath stalker in love with Tom Cruise there right? Obessed with him ready to kill. Right? So the character there isn't exactly able to analyse logically.
And besides today even marriage does not entitle someone to spend with their partners for good. Neither does having their kids. So I think *** does not count even more.
2006-08-05 05:18:12 · answer #5 · answered by eternalvoid 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it is not written anywhere that it should. And it does not happen. If you swallow, you must like it, and that is all. The movie is a movie, it is not real life, cant believe everything u see on there. It is acting.
As far as the pulling and tugging on your head, I guess he likes it, and must be a turn-on for him, it is also pornish.
2006-08-05 07:24:22 · answer #6 · answered by Mx2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, don't believe what someone else said about it being gross and bad for your health. It does absolutely nothing to your health. Except feed you, cause it's got a surprising amount of calories. If you like it, it's fine.
As for your question...not really. You're entitaled to be with them for good if you love them and they love you. Not because you gave them a *******. The two are completely unrelated.
2006-08-05 05:13:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you have an interesting sex life but that doesn't say much for you chances of holding on to you man. You could suck him dry and he may still leave you when he is done. And some girls like to have there hair pulled. Like I said it is interesting but not grounds for him being your love slave.
2006-08-05 05:06:23 · answer #8 · answered by LORD Z 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have no sense of an identity, I suggest you spend more time educating yourself about things in the world that really matter.
2006-08-05 05:01:49 · answer #9 · answered by Lake Lover 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
only till he gets his $20 worth
2006-08-05 05:09:45 · answer #10 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋