together, and he cannot take care of himself and his family doesnt care, and he lives with you because he has no one and cant function what would you do? We have not been together for 7 years he left and then came back and has no sense at all. I care about him and I dont want to see him homeless, but I have a life and it is stressfull. It is like having an extra kid around, my daughter loves him and knows he is not right, but I dont know what to do? He has been in my home for a year and he needs help but I cant watch him for the rest of my life>
2006-08-04 21:55:06 · 6 answers · asked by rice riceissonice 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
No he wasnt like that when we were together we dated in hs and it extended to college, then he left and he is not the same
2006-08-04 22:02:34 · update #1
I dont want to put him in an institution or hospital they treat those people less than human, and I still care for him, I would not want anyone to do that to me if something happened, we never know where life will lead us, I just need some other feasible soulution.
2006-08-04 22:23:08 · update #2
well, you don't want him homeless, coz you still care for him, but you don't want to put him in an institution, & you say you have a life & can't look after him...dearie, in life there are a lot of sacrifices. if you have decided to have him stay with you, who else is there for him to count on but you? if you have no time for him, there are a lot of good institutions that don't treat people that way, though money might be your enemy. might i suggest, if you don't want him in an institution, & you're too busy to take care of him at home, & his parents don't care...hire a nurse or a care-giver. that way, you're in control of the way you want him to be treated, & his at home with you & your daughter. Although having a nurse is not a lifetime, one way or the other the nurse will eventually leave, so will your daughter too, & only the 2 of you will remain with each other...wherever we put it, it still ends up with you taking care of him in the end.
2006-08-04 22:46:35 · answer #1 · answered by kevkatz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i feel you should have seen this before ya two got together and i feel you have to go with your heart.
i can understand your problem but i cant understand why you led him along all this time you should have gotten out of the problem earlier now he is depending on you as a friend who will help him out in time of need.
but i am not in the position to tell you what to do in this case you will have to look deep in your heart for only you know what is best for you.
2006-08-04 22:15:10 · answer #2 · answered by carters759 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is quite evident he is ill. Mentaly and possible physically as well. It would be a good idea to have him examined by professional mental health people. It is quite likely they can help him. Please get help for him as soon as you can. If you can't afford it then there are programs that will help and get him the medical care he needs.
2006-08-04 22:33:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmm, was he like this when you were together? if so, wasnt that a VERY BIG RED LIGHT????? otherwise, look into some kind of group home setting, where you and your daughter could visit him regularly
2006-08-04 21:58:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should help him get into an institution or a hospital where he can get some help.
2006-08-04 22:05:38 · answer #5 · answered by Pirate_Wench 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pl do send him to old age home .
2006-08-04 21:59:19 · answer #6 · answered by your noon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋