I like to be dominated in bed and I'd love him to abuse me. It just turns me on...But he feels bad to abuse me...how to encourange him to do that?
2006-08-04 21:52:21 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Your spirit is damaged, get some help.
2006-08-04 22:06:29 · answer #1 · answered by Lake Lover 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to find a Dom or Master, one that will allow it to be only bed, and not 24/7....there are some out there.....but most would want a real life full time thing
2006-08-04 22:05:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
my boyfriend and i communicate all the time. we had a verbal relationship and a mental connection first thing. physical things were really by the wayside for a while. we talked about sex and all of that and would speculate, but we were just friends and it was all talk. we got together and it was nervous at first but explosive after we got a knack for eachother.
if thats something you truely enjoy, maybe your not expressing your enjoyment for it enough. you need to give cues and really get into it. for example, i love it when my boyfriend talks dirty and pulls hair and all of that, but it took me a while to get truely comfortable enough with it to express it. theres no question of if or what i enjoyed anymore. its obvious, and my boyfriend loves to give that to me.
2006-08-04 22:04:40 · answer #3 · answered by Laura 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to lead a happy and peaceful life don't do it better try some other tricks to turn on .
2006-08-04 22:01:17 · answer #4 · answered by your noon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's not considered normal sexual behavior. You may want to consider getting some counseling before someone gets hurt.
2006-08-04 21:59:00 · answer #5 · answered by hiclaude 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
aask him to instead of his penis in you, if he would use his fist. If that does'nt work, ask him to analize you real hard, that might get it. If that doesn't work, next time you're giving head, bite real hard on it, I gaurantee you'll get the abuse you're looking for
2006-08-04 22:02:28 · answer #6 · answered by captcruzer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well get reall kinky like handcuffs or something and let him be creative just be very submissive and see what he does... if he doesnt do shiet... than hes not the guy for you.... trust me ive done some crazy shiet... ask me if u wnat to know
2006-08-04 22:02:02 · answer #7 · answered by JQ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's obviously not comfortable with it so i dont think u should push it
u'll just end up pushing him away
find someone who shares ur interest - this r'ship aint gonna work if u cant even enjoy sex together
2006-08-04 21:58:55 · answer #8 · answered by sexy_chill 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you won't sleep w/him unless he does!!
2006-08-04 21:55:50 · answer #9 · answered by mlove1307 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋