i have a best friend crista and she goes out with my other best friend caleb.....me and caleb have been friends since ever so yah and now that her and caleb are goin out he does not act the same wat am i goin to do i dont want to tear them apart but i am scared that i accutley like cristas boyfriend caled??????what am i goin to do now??????
2006-08-04 21:39:41 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You really are in a tough situation. I'm not sure what I should tell you because I don't want to make things worse for you. Well here goes. I understand that you like Caleb. I'm not sure if he feels the same way towards you. From what you told me I think he likes you in return. However, this is just a guess. I'm not positive. But if you're her best friend and she really likes Caleb I think that you should put your feelings aside and let them be together. I know you don't want to hurt her. I'm not sure if what I'm telling is going to make things better or worse. But like I said if they both like each other you should do what's best for them. This may be hard but by doing this you're proving more that you're a loyal and caring friend. I know you already are but by doing this you're further proving it. Anyway that's pretty much all the advice I'm able to give you right now. I hope that things turn out for the best and not the worst. And remember, you don't have to take my advice. What I'm telling you is merely that: ADVICE. If you don't want to do what I'm suggesting it's perfectly fine. No pressure. Again, I hope things turn out good. I wish you the best of luck!
2006-08-04 22:00:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Did you ever think of Caleb as your future boyfriend or just now when he is going out with Crista? Maybe you are just jealous? That is very usual when something like this happen. Probably the two of them would still want you as their friend...so go out with them...and probably you will soon find out that Caleb is not the guy for you-that you do not have fillings for him. I understand that you fill hurt...but believe me...if the two of them really likes each other than is there nothing you can do. Do not loose your friends just because you are hurt and you would like Caleb just for yourself.
Good friends is hard to find!!!
2006-08-05 05:06:25 · answer #2 · answered by baby_doll 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing you can do. If you guys were all friends, the three of you, and two of them started going out, its going to be different. My best friends Logan and Toria started dating and it was always so wierd hanging out with the two of them. Thank God I didn't have a thing for Logan cuz it would have made being their friend super akward. If you are Crista's best friend, you'll leave them alone. Liking Caleb is okay. Stealing him is not. Good luck!!
2006-08-05 04:48:30 · answer #3 · answered by mlove1307 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dunno wots up wit that jason guy but i think u should talk to either crista or caleb - whoever u feel more comfortable wit - and yea just get all ur feelings out there, u dont have to DO anything, just let them know
btw u should only do this AFTER u know for SURE wot ur feelings are towards caleb otherwise it'll just get messy
good luck!! :)
2006-08-05 04:46:54 · answer #4 · answered by sexy_chill 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
women are so messed up
2006-08-05 04:51:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋