if I am pregnant, how can i get rid of the kid in my womb? please help me.?

Question

please help me because I don't want to be pregnant and I don't want my family know about it.

what can i do? im only 15!

Answer 1

Safe abortion within 12 weeks of pregnancy. After that it is little risky, but you should go for abortion early if you do not want the unwanted child to come. By that you will also save the child of social ignominy which will determine his character and therefore his future. Abortion does not affect your prospect of pregnancy in future.

Answer 2

This is so wrong!?
Body: don't care if I lose friends over this
and you shouldnt either. Take a stand for what is right and what is wrong.

Month One:
Mommy
I am only 8 inches long
but I have all my organs.
I love the sound of your voice.
Every time I hear it
I wave my arms and legs.
The sound of your heart beat
is my favorite lullaby.







Month Two

Mommy
today I learned how to suck my thumb.
If you could see me
you could definitely tell that I am a baby.
I'm not big enough to survive outside my home though.
It is so nice and warm in here.









Month Three

You know what Mommy
I'm a boy!!
I hope that makes you happy.
I always want you to be happy.
I don't like it when you cry.
You sound so sad.
It makes me sad too
and I cry with you even though
you can't hear me.







Month Four

Mommy
my hair is starting to grow.
It is very short and fine
but I will have a lot of it.
I spend a lot of my time exercising.
I can turn my head and curl my fingers and toes
and stretch my arms and legs.
I am becoming quite good at it too.







Month Five

You went to the doctor today.
Mommy, he lied to you.
He said that I'm not a baby.
I am a baby Mommy, your baby.
I think and feel.
Mommy, what's abortion?







Month Six


I can hear that doctor again.
I don't like him.
He seems cold and heartless.
Something is intruding my home.
The doctor called it a needle.
Mommy what is it? It burns!
Please make him stop!
I can't get away from it!
Mommy! HELP me!







Month Seven


Mommy
I am okay.
I am in Jesus's arms.
He is holding me.
He told me about abortion.
Why didn't you want me Mommy?






Every Abortion Is Just . . .





One more heart that was stopped.
Two more eyes that will never see.
Two more hands that will never touch.
Two more legs that will never run.
One more mouth that will never speak.







If you're against abortion, post this as...
I don't care if I lose friends over this

Answer 3

Not too long ago it was your friend and you were not certain, now it is you and you already have a kid in your womb.

Let's get down to the truth.

If you had sex in the last couple of days then go to a free clinic for advice; they will tell you how to handle this right away.

If you had sex a while back and you are late with your period and have any of the other symptoms of pregnancy go see doctor and have a pregnancy test. You may be pregnant. If you are the doctor will tell you what your options are.

You should tell your family. They may need to pay for you or watch over you at some point.

This is not something that you should go through alone. That only makes it scarier.

You are 15?

You need help.

Ask for it.

Answer 4

First, if you don't want your family to know, don't post on the internet. Next, you have to make a moral decision that you should have made before you had intercourse - if you did get pregnant, could you terminate the pregnancy? I am assuming that you are not including the father in this decision.

If you are in your first trimester, you should be able to acquire an abortion depending on the state you live in. All states have different rules on whether a minor can have an abortion.

Another option would require the support of your family - carrying the baby to term and placing he or she for adoption. Again, depending on the state and its laws, you may be able to find a couple willing to adopt your baby. The benefit of this would be that the adopting couple, if you went through an attorney, would pay your medical costs.

Good luck. An remember next time to be prepared for the unexpected.

Answer 5

this is quiet morbid my friend....best you think seriously about your future and try to think how you would feel after an abortion . would you be happier or feeling guilty?. I do think you are too young for such a responsibility but it is possible to get help these days and many women your age have babys (there must be support groups), but depends which country you live in. If your no more than 12 weeks pregnant you can go to the doctor for a abortion pill which you can take at home, it supposed to feel like a bad heavy period after you take these pills it could be painful but as you know depends on how relaxed you are and how your body reacts. after that its an operation and you must tell a doctor.This will cost money unless your british, But time is the key here. Best you tell someone to give you emotional support that you can confide in ( a problem shared is a problem halved). I can understand your fears, but you must think of whats best for you as your going to be responsible for your action for the rest of your life.
good look my friend and i do wish you luck. next time play safe always and give nothing to chance...never trust men! ;o)

Answer 6

Abortion or natural miscarriage only way to have the fetus from your body.

However, have to check your state or countries regulations on abortion and if under the age of 18 is allowed to with out consent or not.

If you had sex willingly, time to face up to being an adult. If you think you are adult enough to have sex. Then you are adult enough to handle and take care of the consequences of sex. If are you are not, do not have sex until you are mentally and emotionally mature enough.

Those who are pro life argue abortion on a religious view point. You have a right to abortion whether you are religious or not. Not everone believes in God and not everyone believes a mass of cells if a human being.

I know a lot of people who do not regret having an abortion so don't listen to those who say "You will regret it". THEY ARE NOT YOU. THEY DON'T KNOW YOU. They can't pass judgment on a subject they have no clue how you will feel.

You do what you believe. However, I suggest you learn and get educated upon sex and your rights.

There is always adoption.

Answer 7

abortion is a decision that you may regret bitterly in years to come. Though you may feel like you don't want this child and that your family would be hugely dissappointed it is the price we pay for making the choices we make... consider that if you don't have your child and do abort some day down the line you may really want one and find you can't have one. I know it's hard to see it now but as an adult we can only look back on our decisions we can't change them.. find the strength to tell your family.. they may be upset at first but then be very supportive and encourage you to have the baby... you'll never know unless you tell them. Really take your time in considering this because that is a decision you can't take back.

Answer 8

There are more options that just aborting a baby. If you don't want the baby you can always give it up for adoption. There are plenty of people out there that try hard to get pregnant and would love to adopt a child. Why kill and innocent child that didn't do anything wrong?

Answer 9

i highly recommend you seriously think this through before you make your final decision. abortion is something you will have to live with for the rest of your life...and there are so many people out there that would give anything to have a child. you have many options besides "getting rid of the child." the best thing for you to do no matter what (may be hard at first but worth it in the end) is to be honest and upfront with your family so that they can help you through it. you'll never forgive yourself if you abort this baby and you'll never know what a wonderful person it could grow up to be whether or not you are the person to raise it. please please please go to your family and be honest. but first are you even certain you are pregnant?

Answer 10

"i highly recommend you seriously think this through before you make your final decision. abortion is something you will have to live with for the rest of your life...and there are so many people out there that would give anything to have a child. you have many options besides "getting rid of the child." the best thing for you to do no matter what (may be hard at first but worth it in the end) is to be honest and upfront with your family so that they can help you through it. you'll never forgive yourself if you abort this baby and you'll never know what a wonderful person it could grow up to be whether or not you are the person to raise it. please please please go to your family and be honest. but first are you even certain you are pregnant? "
I agree with this person

Answer 11

How long ago did you have unprotected sex? If it is less than 72 hours ago - run to the doctor and get a "Morning-after" pill.

If it is more - wait for your period. If it is late by 3 days or more, do pregnancy test.

If you're pregnant - get an abortion, there is no other way to get rid of the unwanted pregnancy.