Cheating isn't a gender specific thing. It's a character thing. Cheating is a selfish immature act. Is anyone helped if you collect horror stories about women cheating? Yup, women do cheat. The reason? Women are people, and people do lousy things sometimes. My ex cheated. I truly believe that, as bad as it hurt me, she did more harm to herself. She is the one that must remember that she did what she did. And, though it shows that I'm not as good a person as I'd like to be; I hope she lives a long life, and often remembers the damage she did to herself, our kids, me, and her family.
2006-08-05 03:03:40
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answered by Anonymous
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Its A guy thing. Guys don't have to tell the world what the woman did. Woman on the other hand. Well just look at Yahoo!Answer. Last I knew cheating was around 50 - 50. Survey showed more either male or female made the great chance of cheating. As far is hearing who cheated on who. 80% women will talk about guys cheating. About 25% men will talk about the gals cheating. It a male thing.
2006-08-04 20:50:07
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answered by Mit 4
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you are in control of your own actions. I hate people who say "I cant stop cheating, i cant help it!" Yes you can, you just wont admit that. if you want to cheat, be single for a while, then you can be with whoever you want.... you dont sound like a cheater, you sound like an attention seeking slut to be honest. That isnt to be cruel.... I have been on the other side of the feild (aka ive never cheated) and how would you feel if every person you ever cared dearly about was treating you this way? I highly doubt you would give them a get out of jail free card. Its insecurity.... talk to a therapist. YOU ARE 100% IN CONTROL OF YOUR EMOTIONS AND YOUR ACTIONS! keep your legs closed.
2016-03-26 23:52:23
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answered by ? 4
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My first wife and I met a couple in the town home we had recently moved in to. During the introduction the husband stated that he was the baddest "Bid" (card game) player on this side of town. Having a few knots under my belt, I invited them over for a couple of games. We put the kids to sleep and made some nice snack trays, chips and dip, and of course beer. It didn't take long before we were battling for the crown. A few hours into the night, my son awoke which is usual for the 2 year old. As he walked into the dining room rubbing his eyes trying to focus, he froze, with this huge smile on his face, he came charging, "Uncle Vick" he shouted! It doesn't take a rocket scientist to put this one together. As I stared at my son in this man chest and him not knowing how to respond............... I began to quickly sober up, his wife had the most amazing look on her face and for a browned skinned women she had turned fire red in the face. Everyone sat there for a moment as if we were playing "see who speak first". Finally his wife broke the ice................... he, ...he ....he.... look just like "Lil Vick".
I can't tell you the rest because it would be self incriminating, but fifteen years later I'm still dealing with the fact that my son is not my son!
2006-08-04 21:23:29
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answered by Anonymous
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My ex husband was always another womans "Sloppy 2nd's"!!! . So there! Pffffhhhhtt! I didn't cheat on him. I stayed married to the abusive butthole for 21 years and then I kicked him to the curb! Then I met a REAL man a few years later and have been blissfully happily married ever since!
2006-08-11 20:19:14
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answered by lil redneck 3
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For all you hoes that think girls are better at it and don't get caught. My wife was f@@@ing around while I was away on military work. Guess how I found out. After six months of separation and near divorce, she said she wanted to have sex "one last time" before the divorce. I buy into to it because 6 to 7 months in the desert sometimes clouds a man's judgement. When I got through ******* her in a motel room, my brother was waiting for me in his truck. He asked me to follow him back to the house to tell me something. When I got there the beans were spilled. My wife got caught because her best friend ratted on her. That's right ladies, don't trust your ******* girlfriends!!! Also every time they checked into the motel rooms, she used our credit card(s). And there were constant phone calls to his number. I arranged a meeting with the other man via the former best friend of my wife. He agreed to show up in court and testify against my wife in the divorce hearing. Yeah ladies, you think you're the ****, but men like me are going to put you in your place. Since the separation I ****** around on my wife with 7 women and counting. She'll never find out because I didn't make the mistakes she made. Mine were completely random, I didn't call from my phone and I used cash for the motel rooms when necessary. Most of the time it was at their houses. After this divorce finalizes in a couple of months, I will tell her. Why? To send her a message: What ******* comes around goes around.!!!!!!
2006-08-11 15:02:42
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answered by Thomas K 3
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i got caught cheating, but tha'ts cause I wanted to- I took the guy home on my lunch break knowing my boyfriend could come home at any minute- boy what a scene! I do regret it, but what's done is done- Our relationship was over anyways he was an acholic who wouldnt get help - so I snapped- it was a stuip thing to do, but I wasn't thinking the thing thru- and got caught up in the moment.
2006-08-11 05:41:15
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answered by shannon 4
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You know what I am a girl and I will not lie...I have cheated before but it was because I was lacking the love and affection of my guy. I know it still doesn't make it right but hey if the guy was doing what he should it wouldn't had made me feel like that!
2006-08-12 09:08:38
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answered by Anonymous
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I have had an ex gf that cheated on me and can't tell you how it tore me apart, but...I thank her everyday now because her behavior led me right into the arms of an incredible woman with whom I share the most wonderful marriage with right now...so it has its ups and downs..watch out girls there are soe good women out there and one day you are going to suffer the consequence of your actions..my ex gf has many regrets but those are all hers!!!!!!!!!!
2006-08-12 01:37:41
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answered by Anonymous
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when I was dating I was ALWAYS cheating because I wanted to look for my bigger better deal with out having to feel lonely. Till I started dating my husband, he was the ONLY man I NEVER cheated on because he gave me everything I could ever need and want.
2006-08-11 06:09:08
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answered by Anonymous
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