Is it because he's there for you emotionally. Does he give you everything you want? Is it these together?? Why do women marry the men they marrry?( I'm 20)
2006-08-04 20:18:02 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Hi..
I guess : "If, he, can sing the song, of "your heart"......
..... when, "you".... have forgotten, it ..... ;)
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My regards!;)
2006-08-07 17:03:52 · answer #1 · answered by Kimberly 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen, im young but I'm not dumb, and I am a man. You will know when you have a good man because hes not just your lover, hes your friend. You can always depend on him, he may not be always able to give you what you want, but he can give you hat you need. When you're down, he's there to pick u up, when you need help, he's there for you. People marry the people they marry because they can feel a strong bond in between there hearts that connects them as one human being. But that only works in true love! Thanks for listening!
2006-08-04 20:30:04 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know you have a good man when he sticks thru even the worst times with you. makes you want to be a better person. you can see your future with him, and it is good. you would want this person to be the father of your children (imagine him as your dad, would you want that?) he doesnt make you do things you are uncomfortable with. he doesnt put you up on a pedestal and expect you to be perfect, instead he loves you inspite of and even because of your imperfections. he does not give you everything you want, because no one should have EVERYTHING they want. hes there for you when you need him to be. hes imperfect, but you love him anyway because he accepts your imperfection too. he doesnt define you by your sexual skills. money and sex arent allowed to affect your relationship, he could care less about them. women marry the men they marry for various reasons, some good, some bad. some just because they think they should, some because they truly understand the commitment and purpose involved with marriage
2006-08-04 20:26:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im getting married in dec and Im 21 almost ur age. My fiance is there for me emotionally. He listens when i need him to. he gives me what i want but we also compromise a lot. he has such a good heart. you can also kinda tell from the way he treats his sisters or his mom. if he takes care of them and is sweet to them, most probably he'll be the same way 2 you. Good luck gorgeous.
2006-08-05 01:13:26 · answer #4 · answered by ***Nicole*** 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think its a combination of many things. A good man is basically a good person. How does he treat others? What are his values and are they similar to yours? Do you know deep down that he will be there for you if things get really tough? Basically I think you have to ask yourself "is he someone with honor?" Also does he help you and motivate you to be a better person? I am with my man because of things like that. Does he give me everything I want? Of course not and I wouldn't expect that, especially if you are speaking of material things. When it comes to meeting most of my needs he does pretty darn well. The thing that I think is so important is that when we disagree on something or if we get angry or irritated with eachother I know he isn't going to bail on me and go looking for greener pastures. I really think that is a good man. One who is willing and able to commit to you and put your relationship first. I wish you much love and happiness in your quest!
2006-08-04 20:34:06 · answer #5 · answered by UCURGYPSY 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's everything, and that's why they are special. Yes to everything you mentioned, and so much more - little presents, meaningful looks, amazing kisses, deep talks, special bonds - seriously everything adds up to the big picture of what makes someone perfect for you. It's mainly seeing that they really, truly, love and care for you, in such a way you can see it, hear it in his voice, know it by his words and the things he does - and know that it can't be faked.
Good luck.
2006-08-04 20:23:22 · answer #6 · answered by Jigga 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm married now for 13yrs, As for me, I can only say what works for me, sometimes when you are young you don't see the good qualites in your man. these are what I looked for
1 personality
2 responsible
3reliable
4 mature
5 dependable
6 hard working
7charming
8 handsome
9compassionate
10 devoted to his beleifs in any area
11 excellent provider for his family
Well I can go on and on. these qualities I feel are important.
You find the right man then he will hopfully , have most of these.
I don't have every answer for every situation this is only my opinion.
I hope you find what you are looking for in your future husband.
2006-08-04 20:51:48 · answer #7 · answered by RAINBOW 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You feel complete with that person around. He is your best friend/lover. You can tell him anything and he does not go and tell everyone. You feel safe. He comes home every night. He is faithful. He is honest. No man is perfect in this world but there are good men still out there. I have one.
2006-08-04 20:32:49 · answer #8 · answered by luvlisteningtomusic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
women marry men for all different reasons a good man is someone that is there for you and you can be yourself with someone that makes you feel safe and you know that no matter what happens theyll always be by your side.
2006-08-04 20:22:44 · answer #9 · answered by ... 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you learn from experience whats good and what not good. Eventually you will know how the 'right' man ought to be. Thats why dating is on hell of an experience. Good luck
2006-08-04 20:22:49 · answer #10 · answered by Alex S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't, but the longer you can live with him in a stable relationship the better chances you have of having found the dude.
2006-08-04 20:22:03 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋