I am scheduled to give my testimony for my child's medical neglect/malpractice lawsuit soon. I am very nervous about it! The event has forever changed my son's life and has left him medically fragile. I don't want to do or say anything that will have a negative impact on his case. I feel like his whole future is in my hands with what I say. Of course, I'll speak nothing but the truth, however, I know that the truth can be twisted by nasty opposing attorneys. Can anybody here, with experience in law or personal experience, give me some advice as to how I can prepare for this very stressful event? I have already been thru one, but we need to basically do it all over again because we've brought more doctors into the lawsuit and their attys. need to be present. That one was hell for me. I had no sleep the night before and was just a wreck. I'm dreading the next one and am hoping someone here can give me some tips on giving the best testimony possible.
2006-08-04 20:09:13 · 3 answers · asked by Answers to Nurse 3 in Politics & Government ➔ Law & Ethics
Of course, my attorney will be present. I'm looking for real answers here. Please only answer if you have experience and knowledge in the field of law. Thanks.
2006-08-04 20:25:19 · update #1
Thank you for your responses, I appreciate it! Does anyone have any tips about how I can remain calm, cool and collected? Does anyone know what some usual tricks are by opposing attorneys?
2006-08-04 21:21:00 · update #2
Your Attorney should help you to prepare for the desposition. He/she should go through the procedure with you and suggest likely questions. There is nothing wrong about this, witnesses should always be prepared so they can give evidence properly. So I would suggest that you speak to your lawyer and tell him/her your concerns and see if you can have some preparation. The only way to prepare is to practice.
The lawyers will have a good idea as to the strength of your claim. Pre-trial hearings are an opportunity to undermine your resolve and allow them to make a low offer fro settlement. Be strong and lean on you lawyer that's what he/she is there for.
Best wishes. I hope things work out well for you and your son.
2006-08-04 21:11:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My Attorney has told me over and over that the MOST harmful person you will encounter at a Deposition is YOURSELF!!!
Most people try to use the deposition as their chance to tell their side, so to speak, and that's the LAST thing you want to do. The deposition is your own words, and they will definitely be thrown back at you in court!!! The very least you say--the better off you will be. Don't try explaining things that seem unclear--that's not your job. Answer "yes" or "no" or "I don't know or don't remember" as much as possible. Do not ramble on and on as that's what their attorneys want you to do. Do not cry or tell unasked personal info. Answer only when questioned, and most important of all--Never, Never, Ever Lie about anything!!! You can bet they already know the truth, and you will destroy your credibility, and be in contempt. Let your Attorney guide you, and ask for as many breaks as you need. Good Luck!!
2006-08-04 20:32:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Think before you speak and if you can bring a attorney with you that would be good I'd guess.
2006-08-04 20:14:16 · answer #3 · answered by paragon32288 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say only the truth and nothing else.
2006-08-04 20:12:47 · answer #4 · answered by TexasDave 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋