fight her cause she is extremely popular and she is the type that can turn people against you she is still trying to fight with me and i haven't done anything to her she didn't like me the first time she ever saw me for no reason im getting sick of her still trying to fight me should i just fight her and get my reputation ruined or let her keep trying to fight me threat me and call me names please help??
2006-08-04 20:03:19 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
stand up to her...if she thinks that ur afraid of her she will just tease and fight with you more because she will think of you as an easy target. if you stand up to her,then you will show her you are strong.
2006-08-04 20:09:38 · answer #1 · answered by fashionistaqt 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? And what is her gripe? This information would be helpful, for a more complete answer.
What would be great to do--if you can do it right--is not fight her but stand up for yourself. Tell her in private that you won't tolerate her bullying anymore, and that if she continues, you will involve the law. If you do this in private, she will have less peer support egging her on. Also, if you are able to be level-headed and assertive, she may just back down.
She may go ahead and tell people that you threatened to rat her out. Who knows? But if you have any self-esteem, you will know that you are well within your rights to protect yourself physically and mentally. Bodily threats are crimes, after all.
This girl is relying on her "superior" social status and your "inferior" social status to fan her own ego. If you can find a way to see behind all the social-status B.S. and just have some level self-respect, you will become much less worried about this stupid bully.
You may want to call up the police's non-emergency number to ask what can be done about somebody threatening bodily harm to you. This will arm you with the facts. And if it turns out you can file a report against her for threatening you with violence, I suggest you do it. Chances are high that she won't feel so superior when the cops call her house or show up there.
It's ridiculous to live in the shadow of a bully. I hope that you have enough self-respect and fearlessness to stand up for yourself and put this girl in her rightful place.
2006-08-05 03:12:17 · answer #2 · answered by Gestalt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok.You don't like this ****** right.Heres a lesson
I learned about what you should do to people
like this.She is bullying you.She is only trying to fight you because acting bitchy is what makes her popular.Put her in her place.By doing this I
promise it will piss her off more than she's pissing you off.Ignore her stupid ***.Walk straight past her and act like she doesn't even
exist.If she says something to you tell her to leave you alone.That you don't have time to play her ****** games.Tell her I'm not gonna fight you so get over it.Tell her your not scared your just not gonna stoop to her level.You are more mature than she is.When you ignore someone who is pissed at you this hits them where it hurts.It's the ultimate way of getting the upper hand and the last laugh.
2006-08-05 03:25:52 · answer #3 · answered by jenn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you don't fight her, your reputation will be that you are defenseless and everyone will walk all over you and take advantage of your weakness. you need to stand up to the girl and just fight her and give it your all. if you fight her, if you really go apeshit on her (even if you lose), people will think twice with messing with you again in the future. some people will say fighting doesn't solve anything, but it does in some cases. and this sounds like one of those cases.
2006-08-07 00:20:48 · answer #4 · answered by jennyYM 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would kick her a** and not worry what anyone thought. If you let her run over you she will just keep doing it and that makes people think your a push over so just tell her off or kick her a** what ever you want but don't ever let someone pick on you because they are popular
2006-08-05 03:27:39 · answer #5 · answered by Kathy S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look girl u need to fight this girl asap u can decide ur rep and when u get older i promise u these pop. girl fads end just believe in urself and if that dosent work try to get some dirt on her.. believe me i have been in ur shoes and it will soon all pass
2006-08-05 03:19:49 · answer #6 · answered by betterC0C0butter 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
who cares if she's popular?!?! If i were u, i wouldnt put up with her crap, i'd beat the **** outta her! see what she has to say after shes cryin on the floor like a lil baby, HER reputation will be ruined, not yours!
2006-08-05 10:39:26 · answer #7 · answered by im_cool 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl u need to fight dat girl!
dont let no one make fun of u, o put u down!
dont worry bout gettin in trouble o anything, u juss need to stand up for urself!
2006-08-05 04:39:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her that shes just a loser b**** thats trying to get attention. and if she actually beats you up bad tell a teacher. or if your like me and you like to get even with people spread a really bad rumor. if you've done nothing to her she shouldnt be making fun of you. shes probably some immature brat with no life.(
2006-08-05 19:16:08
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first, before asking a question, come down off the caffeine. second, just kick her in the taint and be done with it
2006-08-05 03:08:17 · answer #10 · answered by Adam S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋