I found this out and it was a shocker to me because I felt invaded and unsecure in my own home...I didn't know what I was coming home to after that was revealed to me through an email history on my computer. So I left her with him and everything else.
What would U Do?...Just Curious.
2006-08-04 19:45:55 · 16 answers · asked by ? 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Betrayal - It only comes from some1 closest 2 U.
2006-08-04 19:46:59 · update #1
I found the email history by simply clicking on history when I got home that aftrenoon...she 4got to erase it that day. Many things have soured since then.... She was eventually fired from her job ( Police Dept.) for forging my name on a closed checking account & evicted from the home later.
2006-08-04 19:55:33 · update #2
Been there, done that, got the T-shirt and burned it. My ex did the same thing and I left, and left her the house and everything, got my stuff out and didn't look back. Yeah, it hurt really bad because I put 10 years into the relationship, but it was just like being hit, and I will not stay around if you ever hit me. Karma is a good thing!!
2006-08-04 20:01:50 · answer #1 · answered by savvyd 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would talk to them and tell them how I felt about the whole situation. Remember talk, dont yell because then nothing will get accomplished. Anyway, find out WHY this happened... at least their reason. Personally, i wouldn't really take to heart their answer, someone who lost your trust like that never deserves it back again. So finding out the motive is mainly for good evidence in court that you were wronged emotionally and financially.
Basically i'd file for divorce and make sure I got to keep the house by having a strong case against them.
2006-08-05 02:54:40 · answer #2 · answered by Hamilton 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either come home early and bust them. But more likely just vanish leave for work one day and not come back. I left two marriages and did just that, took nothing except my kids and asked for nothing except to realize they had wasted that last, last chance and it was done so leave me alone. They were always clearly warned that my breaking point was FAST approaching, if they chose not to believe that it was on them. I think thats what being 'done' with that person is, the people that fight about this lamp or that are still holding on, even fighting with someone is still maintaining a relationship, once its done for you there is nothing to say and the stuff doesn't matter you just want to get to better tomorrows. Good luck to you, you did the right thing!
2006-08-05 02:53:51 · answer #3 · answered by dappersmom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
life is full of surprises either good or bad ,if there's one thing i keep on telling my husband,if i caught him on the act of cheating i will never give a damn chance because i believe if he did once he will do it again and again .Confront them and don't just keep quiet but I'm not saying you do scandal. Be tough enough
2006-08-05 03:15:45 · answer #4 · answered by 2m's 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you giving her everything you are working for? He gets her and your stuff? No way Honey! I am dealing with something similar...you better believe my spouse would be out on his bootie if i found out something worse than I did!
2006-08-05 02:54:56 · answer #5 · answered by Gothic Martha™ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The shape of their azzes would never look the same two days in a row.
2006-08-05 02:51:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That f*ckin sucks. What a traitor. Kick her to the curb. It's okay to demand respect, especially in your own home.
Could you please explain what you mean by email history though? How'd you find it?
2006-08-05 02:51:41 · answer #7 · answered by crazydaze 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I leave with as much dignity as possible..I never let people know they have the power to get to me...leave like their trash
2006-08-05 02:50:13 · answer #8 · answered by cassiepiehoney 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take all that is yours, find a new place and start over. Date someone who appreciates who you are and start the hell over.
2006-08-05 02:55:08 · answer #9 · answered by slckid2004 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just leave it alone....I know it's going to be difficult, but leave it alone, Karma will take care of the rest...
2006-08-05 02:50:38 · answer #10 · answered by cknksmom2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋