if your husband worked security at a strip club how would you feel about that?

Answer 1

Well as a former dancer I got to see a lot that went on between staff and the girls. At every club I worked at there was some kind of drama. Trust is a beautiful thing but I definately wouldn't dance again if I were in a relationship, nor would I want my spouse bar tending or working security in a club. I'm a decent gal and when I was dancing it was to pay my hellish student loans. I was single and the guy that worked security for us was this really nice (and very attractive ) family guy. After working with him and getting to know him I almost made the mistake of starting something with him. Keep in mind he had a great wife and two kids at home. I'm just saying that in that particular environment even really nice faithful guys can be tempted. Hope that helps.

Answer 2

You shouldn't be worried about the strippers so much, just be glad it's not a reg. club where half the ppl coming in were chicks. I have this friend that used to work at both types of clubs, he never scored with the strippers but always with the customers from the reg. club.

Answer 3

It all depends on how much that you trust your husband. If you have any doubts as to his faithfulness, speak now or you will regret it later. If you let him go and work there and keep wondering all the time if he's starring at them or sleeping with them, it's going to cause you to resent his work and worse, resent him. Both of you should set down and talk this over, it's all a matter of trust. Just don't let this get you down, if he's faithful, he wont do anything to hurt you.

Answer 4

They are just women, most with boyfriends, husbands and some even familys....the money is damn good for the dancers. If it were my guy.....I trust him and I wouldn't be concerned.

If you are, you need to talk to him about your feelings and maybe get to know some of the girls he works with. Not all strippers are in it for the extra mile. They go, they dance, they get paid and go home to the ones they love.

Answer 5

Well, I guess it depends on how much you trust him. If my fiancee worked at one, I wouldn't batt an eye. I actually joke around with others that I could put him in a room of fine a s s naked girls and he would come home to me the same faithful man.
If you trust him, you have nothing to worry about.

Answer 6

I would be mad if he did not have that job before we got married. There are so many jobs out there that a man can get why that one. Yes I would be worried for the fact that he is around all those naked women. Women like that are tramps if they can take off thier clothes for all those men then they have no morals. If he had the job before you got married then you should of known what you were getting yourself in.

Answer 7

If I trust him I see nothing wrong with it. Its a job like everything else. Besides he is just like the guys that go to the club, can't touch the dancers anyways.

Answer 8

I worked at a few clubs and the girls did not have sex with the customers but were very horny at closing time and always needed a ride home.

Answer 9

It wouldn't bother me, you see I trust my husband 100 percent.
If your married that's the only way it can be or your headed in the wrong direction. I keep my man happy in all areas. But it was a good question.

Answer 10

i would hate it. yes i trust him but that doesn't mean i would dangle him in front of a bunch of naked women to prove it. i would just totally hate it and he'd hate it if the roles were vice versa too.

btw, i think a lot of these women on here aren't being very honest with themselves. they're all saying oh i wouldn't mind blah blah blah but in reality if their husbands came home today and said it, i GUARANTEE you they wouldn't be saying "ok honey" and smiling at bedtime. NO WOMAN wants her husband looking at other women dancing around half naked.