im not too sure if im ready yet? i like him and everything and i dont mind douing oral sex or any other things but im scared of becoming pregnate yes condoms but they are not 100% safe could anyone give me some advice??please
2006-08-04 19:24:54 · 26 answers · asked by CaliforniaBabe 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
If you are under 18 just say "NO!"
Even if you are over 18 do not let anyone pressure you to do ANYTHING that you do not want to do!
2006-08-04 19:32:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are having oral sex and you are afrid of getting pregnant!
Try being afraid of an STD.
Pregnancy is nothing to sneeze at but don't lead in with the oral sex comment.
Next you are going to say anal would be okay because it won't get you pregnant.
Getting to your question. It is up to you. He is just another person. It may seem like he is the only person for you but he is not. If you don't want to have intercourse then don't. If you want to then be cautious, that would mean birth control for him and you. Nothing is 100% but that is the risk you take when you no longer want to wait for mister right.
Best advice is not to do it. You will know when I am wrong. Until then don't do it.
2006-08-05 02:38:27 · answer #2 · answered by LORD Z 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you over 18?
Are you ready to accept the consequences if you get pregnant?
That means, do you have a home, a job, a bank account? Are you living on your own? If you have a child will your child be a welfare statistic before it's little feet even hit the floor?
You don't even know how to spell. Concentrate on finishing school...jr high, high school and college before thinking of doing all of the other stuff.
2006-08-05 02:30:28 · answer #3 · answered by Trollhair 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be 100% sure you want to have sex before you do it, or you're going to regret it majorly for the rest of your life.
Take the pill while using condoms as well. 98% success with Birth Control, 95% with the condom.... there's an extrememly rare chance of getting pregnant while using both, plus the condoms will guard you against STI's
2006-08-05 02:29:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you juss gotta make sure that you are ready for it...if you are scared of becoming pregnant then go to the doctor and ask to be put on birth control and if your scared about parents or whatever tell them that you want it to be kept confidential...they should give you a card that can only be used for buying birth control...otherwise there is condoms that are betweeen 87-95% safe
2006-08-05 02:28:14 · answer #5 · answered by jordan2285 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uh. you have already have sex - oral sex is sex. Don't have sex with a guy just because you want him to like you or you don't want to lose him. You can get pregnant at any time, using any kind of contraceptive, and you need to think about STDs, as well.
2006-08-05 07:26:40 · answer #6 · answered by Lydia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u don't think you r ready then maybe ur not. you don't want to sleep with this guy and then get pregnant and then have to deal with your parents and everything. Do you? i don't think u do i know i wouldn't and u don't even know if this guy really likes you or just wants to use u for sex. don't do something u will regret the same thing happened to my friend and now she has to deal with this luckly shes not pregnant but u might not be so lucky do just think about this really think about it before do something u will regret.
2006-08-05 02:32:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't until you are ready. It takes a lot of responsibility to have sex. You must be prepared for the possibility that you could become pregnant.
2006-08-05 02:27:15 · answer #8 · answered by Plasmapuppy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your not ready for sex you shouldnt do it yet every guy wants sex its up to you if you think your ready and there the right person to do it with if you dont think your ready yet than you should wait
2006-08-05 03:32:12 · answer #9 · answered by ... 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're not sure if you're ready to have sex, then don't do it. You will regret it if you do. If he really cares about you, he will care about your feelings and he won't want to do anything you don't want to do. If he pressures you, he's a loser and you need to dump him.
Trust me, if you have sex for the first time when your heart and mind isn't ready, you will regret it for the rest of your life.
2006-08-05 02:31:00 · answer #10 · answered by No Shortage 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya u can do safe sex
by using condoms the u safe use good quality condoms
u both r love to each other so dont be shy
enjoy u r self
2006-08-05 02:58:44 · answer #11 · answered by cool17221 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋