My daughter is only 11 and she has already made out with her 10 month boyfriend. How should i deal with it? She's so young to me. What do you guys think, is it wrong or right?
2006-08-04 19:13:03 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
She's only 11 I wish I didn't see this.My daughter is already 7 I don't want her to grow up.Now I hear about girls starting to make out with boys at 11.NOOOOOOOOOO not yet she suppose to be my babygirl forever.Well that's the way I wish it could be anyway but we all have to accept the facts our babies are growing up.To fast yea but they growing up.
2006-08-04 19:21:42 · answer #1 · answered by Desperado 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
She shouldn't be even thinking about boys, she's only 11. There is no way she should have a boyfriend or even be left alone with boys unsupervised until she's at least 16; maybe 15 depending on maturity level, but even that's pushing it. You need to talk to her, seriously talk. There's too much for a child to deal with when it comes to relationships. And she is definitely a child, she hasn't even made it to middle school yet and if she has then she's in like what the sixth grade. That's definitely not right.
2006-08-05 02:27:18 · answer #2 · answered by curiosity2113 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off i think 11 is too young to be dating.....i have three daughters a six boys and trust me none of them are dating and some are older then your daughter....if you have concerns for your daughter then you need to sit down and talk to her...even though my kids dont date yet my wife and i make sure they know all about real life..we have an open relationship with them..i was up front with my son i told him look you can't date now but hey you might go behind our backs and do so either way..just dont be stupid protect yourself...im not one to say you can't have sex cause like i said they are going to do what ever they want....but i know my kids are smart enough to know whats best for them....just have a talk with you..it might be hard to have that open relationship with your daughter if it isn't already like..i hope everything works out
as for you thinking she is growing up too fast....sorry to say but you let that happen...your the parent.....i know kids to things at young ages now but 11 come on now if you let her date there is no reason for you to come on here saying she is growing up to fast.
2006-08-05 02:26:18 · answer #3 · answered by sgtrlopez 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WRONG!!!!! I can't believe you've even let her have a boyfriend?!?!? This is how kids get pregnant. You need to have the talk with her. And not just once but many times. Sex is a no no and all that. I wasn't allowed to date until I was 17. Don't let them be alone together, and remember to have THE TALK. Several several times.
2006-08-05 02:17:58 · answer #4 · answered by Bast 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok well im only 16 but i dont think thats to young and for her to have a 10 month boyfriend at that age is pretty good...if they are juss making out and not doing anything else that i dont think its wrong
2006-08-05 02:16:57 · answer #5 · answered by jordan2285 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My cousin is 12, and she is making out with her boyfriend. I dont think it is right, and have told her if its anything more than that her mom will find out. Kids shouldn't start dating until a mature 14 or 15.
2006-08-05 02:21:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is WAY too young to even be having a boyfriend. You are the parent and it is up to you to install morals in her. If you didn't think it wasn't wrong you would not be asking us.
2006-08-05 02:17:11 · answer #7 · answered by Ryan's mom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's way to young. Where were the rules when she was growing up? What rules have you set for her? Why does she have a boyfriend in the first place?
2006-08-05 02:20:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chasity Belt. Seriously, I got one when I was 10 and I'm still trying to work my way out of it!
2006-08-05 02:16:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU SHOULD TAKE ACTIONS SHE SHOULDN'T BE MAKING OUT WITH A BOY AT HER AGE IT COULD LEAD TO OTHER THINGS I THINK IT'S RIGHT YOU SHOULD DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT AND TELL HER TO STOP IT. HAVE A GOOD DAY
2006-08-05 02:43:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋