2006-08-04 19:06:40 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
if you want to like sex first and foremost thing is that you should know the methods of having sexual pleasures and happinesss during sex,eg foreplay is the most effective tool for pleeasure,rremove your mental depression during sex be more romantic like sound music should be played,wear a sexy gown,talk more with your husband on various topics,please do not talk about his daily routine during the night as he may get bored,if you drink have a sip with your hubby,caressing each other will arouse you and your husband,try to caress to the most sensitive parts to get more exoitic,see that you are without bad odour,apply deo to avoid bad smell.
2006-08-04 22:08:54 · answer #1 · answered by raju 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you are not into your husband any more . Is he boring and routine in his lovemaking ? That could be a problem ..Is he romantic ? Do you tell him what you would like him to do ?
Ask him out on a date . Maybe a romantic place you have imagined . Fantasize . Try other techniques... Does he shoot and scoot ? Both of you need to talk about this for the sucess of your marriage . It's important to both of you . Does he know you feel this way ? Thats a burden even before you hit the sheets .... Women do need romance and fantasy , cuddling and sensuality .... Maybe he isn't a sensous partner ? School him girl !
2006-08-04 19:50:15 · answer #2 · answered by cesare214 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why is this a problem and not something that is uncomfortable. This is a common (yes very common) situation especially when there are intimate issues. You are not alone. There is even a term for it: Decreased Libido (sexual desire).
So much for the words, but me try and get you support to deal with this (and maybe others) issues. I used an Internet search engine to find resources. The one that I found most helpful is: http://www.obgyn.net/women/women.asp?page=/women/articles/libido_dah Start there.
2006-08-04 19:32:37 · answer #3 · answered by J. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
had that problem with my exboyfriend. finally realized i just wasn't physically attracted to him. is your hubby overweight or just not appealing to you?
you could always try watching porn together. i know it sounds weird, but that defenitly can spark the mood.
2006-08-04 20:23:18 · answer #4 · answered by tanja_berengue 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋