I know some people who i think might mastrubate and I want to ask them but I dont want to ruin any relationships, or get word out that I mastrubate, or that i'm a "perv" or "sick". Please help.
2006-08-04 19:04:58 · 24 answers · asked by lilddevil022 2 in Health ➔ Men's Health
These are close friends, and I'm pretty sure they do, but if they dont, i'm sure it'll be negative one our friendship.
2006-08-04 19:10:55 · update #1
Perhaps some people here think such things are absurd, but please if you think that, dont answer this question, i'm being serious.
2006-08-04 19:15:37 · update #2
dont listen to the jerks on here...you just want to b cureous right? well if you have hit puberty you do it...i do it and every other man on this planet does it, if they say they dont they are lieing, but if you want to know very badly start out on a subject leading up to the subject "hey man, u look at porn?" and honestly who cares if you jack off? if some1 were to ask me i would be honest because i do, if they tease you just be like "psssh, no i get some all the time and i just do it so tht i can stay smooth for the ladies", they wont care if they are your friends, but every one does it.
2006-08-04 19:26:26 · answer #1 · answered by popeye 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, why would you need to know the answer to that question? Masturbation is self service sex. It is done by almost every person, without exception. How would you like it if someone asked you "Do you masturbate?, how often, Why? and are you doing it with anyone else? These questions are very personal. They have "hot buttons" for most people. Real close friends, real close, might not be embarrased by these questions if they were asked in a proper setting. So, unless there is a strong need to know reason, and you wouldn't mind others thinking your "being too forward" then ask. You have nothing to lose other than maybe a friend.
2006-08-12 08:45:44 · answer #2 · answered by bertojame 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea im kinda interested in why you would want to know? thats really personal unless you and you're group of friends are just plain cool like that and have the closeness like the tv show, but that can't be or you wouldn't worry about asking.
2006-08-11 23:16:05 · answer #3 · answered by TJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they are your close friend, then they should understand your situation and help you. It's a universal thing, and why should they call you a 'perv' or 'sick'?
2006-08-04 19:22:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay dude, It kinda depends on your personality all boys do it you can ask them about it if they are not shy im not i talk about it all the time its like when girls talk about how big their boyfriends dick is or the rash they seen on Ashely -lol you know go ahead ask but dont ask how to do it they will think you are retarded thats something you should ask on here! Your Welcome
2006-08-12 09:54:59 · answer #5 · answered by jj 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone does, but most people do not want to talk about it. It is a very personal thing to most people. Just leave it at that.
2006-08-12 10:27:54 · answer #6 · answered by Fiasco de Bacle 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There are 2 types of people: those who masturbate and those who lie. I'm not sure how old you are but if your friends haven't started yet they soon will.
2006-08-05 00:02:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHY do you believe it is so necessary to disclose that you slam the ham?
DO you have to discuss it when you take a dump? or go to sleep?
Are you going to have to discuss every sex encounter you have when/if you marry or have a partner? I bet she won;t appreciate it either.
2006-08-04 19:12:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well, casually bring it up, it doesnt make you a perve or sick, its just natural to do it...me and my friend talk about it all the time
2006-08-12 07:06:53 · answer #9 · answered by kevin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
popeye is rite abt it. its a normal thg in teenage years and even after at point of time. if they r true friends, small matter like that shouldnt harm. gd luck.
2006-08-04 20:43:25 · answer #10 · answered by Hagalaz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋