normally I don't mind having fun with another girl but I really didn't enjoy it with her. I've done it with other friends before, so I know that wasn't the reason. But anyways, I don't want to do it again with her and she phoned me when she got home and raved about how much fun she had and I lied and said I had fun too. How do I tell her that I don't want to do it again and how do I give some constructive critisism about her kissing? It was really bad. I don't want to ruin the friendship.
2006-08-04 19:04:34 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Note to you! it was her first girl/girl as you had said. Give her a chance, teach her the techniques that you like. You know how to do it, so tell her what shes doing wrong and how she can fix it to make it more exciting.
2006-08-04 19:14:40 · answer #1 · answered by number1nick123 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good luck salvaging the friendship. I had a guy/guy thing with a friend when I was younger that was bad (no kissing involved) and we didn't talk for like 10 years
2006-08-04 19:15:00 · answer #2 · answered by lifhapnz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just say that you want to remain friends..and sex normally gets in the way of friendship, and you dont want that to happen with the 2 of you because you value her friendship. As for the kissing I would let her next encounter with someone else, tell her about her kissing...you want to remain friends, so dont hurt her feelings.
2006-08-05 01:54:06 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
remember that was her first girl on girl experience..so of course she may be a lil rusty...try to give her a chance at least. you've dun it b4 with another girl so give her some helpful tips rather then just cutting her completely off
2006-08-04 19:55:57 · answer #4 · answered by orange_crush_05 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should really think before saying anything. Could your bad experience be due to this particular friendship, or was it really due to her novice technique? It was her first time, so she was niave at best.
2006-08-04 20:14:29 · answer #5 · answered by midnightdealer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah....um, about that...i wouldn't give her 'constructive criticism' about her kissing. though, i know you dont want to do it again, but if you want to 'train' her to kiss right, i would reccomend to just kiss her a lot, your way. when you kiss someone, one is going to change their kiss to follow suit with the others. that way there isn't the disturbing grinding of teeth, biting of tounges, etc.
2006-08-04 19:42:40 · answer #6 · answered by tanja_berengue 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a student is only as uneducated as his/her teacher... you didnt become the ultimate sex partner after one time... so not really logical that you expect her too... some people are naturally above average with their first experience... most are not
2006-08-05 00:26:44 · answer #7 · answered by Levi Cristopher . 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We all started out as beginners.
Some of our teachers are harsh and cruel and cared not for our feelings. Some of them, had patience and love and showed us how to be better people.
which teacher are you going to be?
2006-08-08 14:19:17 · answer #8 · answered by elymendoza1984 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yada yada 2 points
2006-08-04 19:37:38 · answer #9 · answered by VIP 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just tell her you prefer being friends.
2006-08-04 19:17:11 · answer #10 · answered by ♥ Chels ♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋