2006-08-04 19:02:12 · 5 answers · asked by Kimberly A 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You and your husband need to talk and get and understanding with each other about who is going to be the parent, the both of you or just him? A child must learn to adhere to both parents judgment. Should one give an answer to the child and they don;t like it the other parent should stand in support of the other. The child must learn your answer is the final answer and if it is over ruled by the next parent a meeting of the minds should take place to decide why the decision made must be changed.
2006-08-04 19:13:41 · answer #1 · answered by mrpuffandstuff 2 · 9⤊ 2⤋
that has to stop immediately. Once kids figure out that the parents aren't on the same page, they'll tear you apart. You need to sit down with your spouse, and decide on a united front, and never ever contradict each other in front of the kids.
Kids get spoiled that way.
2006-08-04 19:12:11 · answer #2 · answered by Panda 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your child ask for something simple and the other parent is not around to talk about it then make the decision but if it is important one than you need to let the child know you will discuss it with dad first then let them know or they (the children) will play tug -a-war between parents. other words parents get on the same page and talk before letting the child know the finial decision.
2006-08-04 19:29:27 · answer #3 · answered by montanamom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You dont. If parents dont stick together as parents, the kids dont stand a chance. It makes for a very confused state for the kids.
There is no possible way they're able to base their own values.
They will experience much confusion.
2006-08-04 19:18:27 · answer #4 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you all need to get on the same page
2006-08-04 19:08:04 · answer #5 · answered by heidielizabeth69 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋