Me and my BF of 4 years love to have rough and freaky sex, but after we are done.... I sometimes feel dirty because we can get a bit carried away with role playing and taking turns being submissive with each other.
I am not not complaining about our sex life, I love it. I just want to know if other women and men have the same feelings at times.
2006-08-04 18:57:51 · 24 answers · asked by Maggie 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I dont, but i an see what you mean, If it makes your sex life good then so be it
2006-08-04 19:00:46 · answer #1 · answered by Baby Jack born 4/5/09 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a lot of times what we feel after the fact is just our old inhibitions, fears n what we r taught when we r oung. lol I felt that way a lot when I was younger afterwards because I was raised that those where just not things a proper young lady does lol.
25 years after the fact, I dont give a **** about being a proper young lady I just want 2 have a little fun before I die or a least try 2 die with a freaking smile on my face(while engaging in some scandelous ****) a great big *** **** eatin grin as a friend calls it lmmfao
2006-08-04 19:04:35 · answer #2 · answered by Lady Geo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dated a women 6 months that loved role playing, her favorite was the criminal that sexually assaulted her. I was pretty good at it and she loved it. She soon broke it off because she was too embarrassed to look me in my face the next day. I think if she would have acknowledge the fact that just because she got pleasure from something so bizarre, It didn't make her a bad person or change who she was. (maybe we would still be together today having great, bulk wild sex.)
2006-08-04 19:16:40 · answer #3 · answered by dadnnelle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're boyfriend and you need to take some time coming down from the game. Keep close and caring and be very certain that both of you affirm that it was just a game, and that you actually respect and love one another. This will rebuild the bond that you intentionally threw away in passionate experimentation. Remember - you have to be around this man. You need to build a boundary around your game so it doesn't leak into your other time together. Maybe that will attenuate those feelings.
2006-08-04 19:07:06 · answer #4 · answered by Andy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's called being honest, how can I get an accurate answer if I lie while asking the question ?
I'm actually probably one of the most selfless people you will ever meet I'm sorry you are judgmental.
I need help I want love not lust is there anything wrong with that?
And If you don't want to help answer my question,Than you shouldn't bother visiting my question.
2006-08-04 19:43:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have never been very freaky but the way I see it is if you like it why feel bad about it. You are two consenting adults. I mean you don't have to tell anyone if you don't want to. You can keep it between just the two of you.
2006-08-04 19:02:23 · answer #6 · answered by Becky H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its perfectly normal to have a feeling thats distant from the sexual experience. some people feel repelle, others feel a bit guilty, so i guess u feeling dirty is nothing out of the ordinary, as long as you do not let it deter you from enjoying your intercourse with your BF in future.
2006-08-04 19:03:59 · answer #7 · answered by Skywalker 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes , they do . It tells me that some where subconsciously u don't appreciate it the way u feel abt it . On a longer term this can effect ur relationship/
CASH
2006-08-04 19:01:57 · answer #8 · answered by s_k_latif 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, just so you know what we think.(the guys)
"we get so turned on.by knowing how turned on you are, by what we are doing to you.that our ***** just explode(pre-mature ejaculation).
but afterwords we would think of what we were doing so we can do it again next time.
so all the time you are worried that your a dirty person.we are thinking is was the hottest thing i was ever a part of.and i think i love her
2006-08-04 19:09:14 · answer #9 · answered by pooteo1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, after sex i think all men go through the "get away from me" phase, thats why we rolls over and go to sleep!!!
2006-08-04 19:05:55 · answer #10 · answered by vaivagabundo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋