I have many women friends but it is mostly revolved around a "casual" lifestyle. I don't want to have sex with strange women or women I don't have feelings for anymore. What can I do to stop? How can I stop this and .... I know it sounds corny and probably wimpish, but how do I go about just waiting until Mrs. Right comes along? Any advice is much appreciated. Ladies/Men, help!
2006-08-04 18:39:25 · 15 answers · asked by vail2073 5 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
In that second between the thought and reality, stop, think about what you are about to do, and don't do it.
It's that one second that's crucial.
2006-08-04 19:00:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 2⤋
Thats how my maximum suitable pal is. She's 36, isn't married, under no circumstances has been, and she or he's additionally against premarital intercourse, so she does not even do hook united statesor something. She's no longer relationship all human beings perfect now the two. She purely prefers to stay for herself. She does not decide for human beings to guard or be to blame of, and she or he purely likes being self sufficient, and devoting her existence to artwork and in spite of she desires to do. Her mom constantly annoys her approximately no longer being married or having young ones, yet her dad is supportive. Its her existence, she's happy, so thats what concerns
2016-10-01 12:07:28 · answer #2 · answered by damaris 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The way to stop? Well, how do you stop eating when you are finished? You simply stop and walk away, then clean up the mess.
So you stop, walk away, and be ready to clean up the messes you made with other peoples' hearts. (i.e. say "I was wrong to do that. I'm sorry.")
To wait, just do the opposite of what you've (apparently) been doing: Keep your zipper UP, penis in your pants and out of hers. It's not that difficult, really. Just make up your mind WHY you want to wait. Then stick to your reasons.
Congratulations on your decision! Keep the the morals you set and you'll be a better man for it.
I'm proud of ya!
2006-08-04 18:47:23 · answer #3 · answered by Einsteinetta 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start listening to the women you talk to, and start seeing them for who they are, instead of, well, a piece of meat, so to speak. I'm not accusing you of being shallow, I'm just telling you to use more observation skills when you date. Think in terms of her brain, rather than her body. Does she have a personality you can identify with? Does she have any cute little habits that you like? THIS is how you get to have "feelings for" a woman.
2006-08-04 19:01:01 · answer #4 · answered by Qchan05 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pruning shears are the most cost effective method, but there are some acid based chemical treatments that they use on repeat child molesters in some countries.
2006-08-04 18:45:05 · answer #5 · answered by John F 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Commit yourself to not treating women like Kleenex.
Get a hobby and start meeting women with similar interests.
Treat that woman like she wants to be treated.
2006-08-04 18:57:38 · answer #6 · answered by Sweet and Lo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, get some self-respect. Second, start respecting others.
2006-08-04 18:43:51 · answer #7 · answered by J9 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's so easy, it begins to seem complicated.......
Just make a commitment to yourself to stop.
Then keep your commitment. Always keep your commitments.....no matter what they are.
2006-08-04 18:44:00 · answer #8 · answered by purplewings123 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whaaaa! Life's tough, ain't it?
2006-08-04 18:43:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's the harm in it? If you do stop maybe you should stop breathing also !! ?:)x
2006-08-04 18:49:46 · answer #10 · answered by PaPa Norm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋