What the hell does she have?

Question

I've been married 12 years,have 3 kids and have been for my husband thru thick and thin.I have given him my all,i take care of my self nobody believes i had 3 kids ,i wear sexy clothes to keep him always intrested,i make love to him when ever he wants why the hell would he fall for this ugly itsy b*tch that has crooked feet
a gold filled tooth,hunchback ,bellyhanging,chestless ,stupid,scarneck *****?
I just don't understand !!!

Answer 1

Because, she's everything ur not.. plain and simple..little boys trapped in mens bodies like your husband, they tend to want something different then what they have, U can be the most beautiful girl in the world, and if ur not with a "REAL MAN" he'll eventually grow tired and want someone different because well he's already conquered her.. His head in his pants is doing the thinking not the head on his shoulders and unfortunately with immature men that let the head in their pants do the thinking for them, chase whatever they havent had ..half the time looks doesnt even have to enter in on it, just needs a hole at that point.. Dont get urself worked up about it, if he is that much of a jerk to treat his family this way especially for some low life chic , then u dont really want him anyway, i realize u cant see that right now cause u are in love with the man u ONCE knew, but he's obviously not that man anymore.. dont worry like most trash he'll eventually throw her to the curb..if she doesnt to him first.. My x husband left me and my two kids for a girl he met at work.. claimed to be so in love with her..only a few weeks after leaving me he moved in with her, (NOV.) bought her an engagement ring for Valentines day (we werent even divorced yet) and a week later she went on a trip to "visit family" come to find out she cheated on him while she was there, and she ended up leaving his sorry butt.. so dont worry, what goes around comes around.. in do time..best advice i can give u.. Be happy, even if u feel like screaming and crying inside, Be as happy as u possible can even faking it.. that will eat him up, the more u act like u dont need him and the more independent u seem.. it'll drive him crazy....men like this have such big egos that they just think we are going to crumble and fall on our faces with out them, and pine over them forever.. and even if he doesnt come back, it will get to him seeing that he is not getting the "ego" rush of having a wife begging for him to come back.. So be strong, be a good role model for your kids cause obviously he cant be.. and realize its not u, its him .. he's the one that has the issues..

Good luck..

Answer 2

It is easy for these women and men (not to let your husband off the hook, at all.) when they do not share any of life's daily challenges and stresses, such as bills, children, daily mundane chores etc, to tell each other everything they want to hear. You are so wonderful. You are not appreciated enough. I would never do that (what ever the disagreement with the spouse is) to you. (I'm over simplifying, but you get the idea.), it's a fantasy, it's not about looks and what they don't realize is it is not reality. Ignorance and selfishness.

Answer 3

It doesn't have anything to do with how she looks. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. I'm not saying what he is don't is right ,but you need to figure out if you are doing something to cause it. No saying that it would justify what he is doing, but if you want to save your marriage you need to start asking questions. You calling her a b#%ch, but she got your husband. It's not what she looks like, but what does she do to appeal him. Heck he might just be a dog (and in that case,leave him alone), but if he's not than you better figure out the problem.

Answer 4

love has it's reasons, maybe he just doesn't appreciate how great you are. Or, maybe he has an inferiority complex and doesn't think he's good enough for someone as perfect as you.
Pretty hard to live up to such perfection every day.

Why else would he leave you for such a skank? Go figure.

Answer 5

Calm down.Instead of thinking about everything that you have given him,or what she has that you don't ,think about what he has given you and if he's worth it.To be married for 12 yrs and have 3 kids together and for him to do this to you,I would say he's NOT a man and NOT worthy of you!!!Move on and let her have your leftovers.they deserve ecah other.She is a homewrecker and he is an adulterer and neither of them deserve happiness.

Answer 6

dude, i have three kids and what ever that asshole said about your LA LA ( coochie, pussy whatever) isnt true, cause it goes back to normal or better!! mine went BETTER.lol.anyways, i dont know, men are all ***'s and liars and cheaters. mine left me because she DOES drugs and he could be himself with her. and shes younger......women always get teh shitty end of the stick, the only thing men are good for is teh babys we get outta them. You dont want to be were your not wanted do you? leave his ***, as you said.you take care of your self and your sexy, go get you a better one, and if he doesnt work, get another one. DO WHAT MAKES YOU HAPPY, even if it means commencing an *** whoopin on the one hes with now...I DID, felt good.

Answer 7

I have been through the same thing as you. All I can say is don't try to understand why he did what he did . . . because you will just stress . . . and if you stress you'll start to like the whore he's screwing. There is nothing to 'understand', you have done nothing wrong, and remember he is a guy . . . you seriously cannot expect him to be faithful.

Answer 8

Like you said, You are doing everything to please your spouse.
You deserve some respect. Go to your spouse and ask him what he sees in this other girl. If you love him and want the marriage to continue tell him so. Don't blame the ug*(*&*( girl get the answers from your spouse and ask him why he feels he needs to look elsewhere. I hope things work out for you.

Answer 9

Perhaps you left out some descriptive words...let it all out! You are more than entitled! My thoughts are with you! Sorry, but i have no answers nor do I know what to say to make you feel better! Except...
"Boys are stupid! Throw rocks at them!"

Answer 10

NOTHING!! If he wants that ugly chick, let her have him. Obviously he's too blind to see the good thing he has. Let him go and find yourself a man who will appreciate all that you do and who will return the favor!