2006-08-04 18:09:39 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Arts & Humanities ➔ Other - Arts & Humanities
the first time i had sex was when i was 13 now im 15
2006-08-04 18:10:48 · update #1
It hurts the first few times because your broke your hymen. It might be uncomfortable, but it shouldn't be unpleasant. If it still hurts after a few times, you should see a doctor. The sooner, the better.
2006-08-04 18:15:30 · answer #1 · answered by ilikegum 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex at 15 is why it hurts. You could not possibly appreciate something that beautiful at that age (and it is meant to be beautiful) when you get older you will have problems from promiscuity (trust me). The first time your hubby asks how many men you have been with and you say more than 1 (him) it will hurt him and you will hate it. Physical:you'll get used to it... but the emotional will never go away if you do it with the wrong people. ( this is not religion based as I am a deist... this is true from life's perspective, even for some guys)
2006-08-04 18:15:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It takes time and age for you body to be ready for sex. Being very turned on you can't always feel pain until after. At 13 your body was probably not ready, but sex for most people most of the time doesn't hurt, and it shouldn't really hurt.
2006-08-04 18:16:12 · answer #3 · answered by Lady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it only should hurt the first couple of times and if you haven't done it in a while it hurts. but if it hurts all the time then something could be wrong you should get checked out. be careful i know a girl that had a baby when she was 13. i didn't even have my period until i was 13 what were you thinking?
2006-08-04 18:13:17 · answer #4 · answered by Blank 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you had sex before you were ready. That's a terrible shame because it would have been best for you to wait until you were older and got married. I feel sorry for you.
Hopefully, it will all work out for good and you won't try to be like an adult before you actually are. If I were you I would start going to church and seek healing from God and look forward to that time when you can actually enjoy this provision that He has made for humanity in the proper time and setting during our lives.
Don't let a painful experience drive you away from God, let it lead you to Him. Don't be like many other young women who end up going in the opposite direction and actually become prostitues or lesbians. There is hope in Christ, Amen!
2006-08-04 18:18:07 · answer #5 · answered by Martin S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you're kinda too young to be having sex.Secondly sex hurts the first time for everyone...well females,don't know about guys.And if you've done it a couple of times and it still hurts chances are something is wrong and you might want to go get checked out....unless u're hurting cause the guy is HUGE,but i doubt that's it.Go to the doctor.
2006-08-04 18:16:14 · answer #6 · answered by flexduty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't know the answer to that question it's because you are way to young to be having sex, period. You should be concentrating in school, if I was one of your parents I would ground you until you were 18, and out of my house. Here is some advise, if you are sexually active at least wear some protection, yes, there is protection for women as well as for men. Geez this is what's wrong with our country, kids having sex.
2006-08-04 18:22:06 · answer #7 · answered by bull 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I was 16 and it was altogether too young. Fell "in love". And he wanted to "make love". So eventually it happened. And It did hurt, and it wasn't' worth it because he ended up being a real ******. I know you may have heard it before, but you need to wait until you are old enough to handle the responsibility of sex. Not just being able to physically perform the act, but emotionally and mentally as well. And also, it is better by far with someone who is in love with you. They want to please you and you want to please them. And you both are extremely comfortable with each other. If you wanted an answer in number form, I would say 18, and even then I'm not so sure. Until then, there is no harm in satisfying yourself. Respect yourself enough to not let just any one in. And demand respect from "men" who want you to behave otherwise. Good Luck in your life sweetie!
2006-08-04 18:19:37 · answer #8 · answered by Nikki 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pregnancy at your age would RUIN your life! Teen pregnancy contributes a great deal towards over population. People are living longer and they're having kids sooner! WAIT! WAIT! WAIT! Also just the fact that it cause emotional problems later on in life.
2006-08-04 18:45:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well in most cases it only hurts the first time the penis ripe's the skin in the vagina,it can depend on your physical activities if your very active it may have already tierde a little,then someone who isint at all. if you use some lubricant it may help penetrate easyler.
good luck!
2006-08-04 18:16:21 · answer #10 · answered by CaliforniaBabe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋