my friend asked me out and i said no and now he's not talking to me will he ever talk to me again an stuff be like it used to be??
2006-08-04 18:01:10 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
do i just have to wait it out or what im scared that i might lose my friend forever over stupid question
2006-08-04 18:02:52 · update #1
Explain to him that you said no because he is your friend and a dear one at that.
And you are afraid that if yall start dating and then break up that you will not only lose your boyfriend but your dear friend at that.
You would rather keep him as a close friend.
2006-08-12 14:41:14 · answer #1 · answered by ETxYellowRose 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, if he's truly your friend then it really shouldn't matter to him that you said no!, I had this same probelm.what i did was i called him once (he didnt pick up of course, but i left a message saying sorry and i thought our friendship was to close to be ruined over something like that, then I waited a couple days until he blew some steam off and now we're friends again. but if he still doesn't want to talk to you then keep calling for a couple days and if he still doesn't answer then he's not worth all the trouble!...i hope everything works out!!
2006-08-04 18:28:36 · answer #2 · answered by Nora n Kt 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think ive been in this situation. i was asked by this old time friend if where our relationship now as talking buddies would take us to. i said im happy the way things are and now, he doesnt seem as interested with me as before. and i guess i regret this, cos i do want something more from him. and then i started asking stupid questions, i guess that turned him off all the more, and now, he doesnt text or communicate unless i do. i plan not to bother him anymore but i am afraid i may be passing up a chance because i think i am in love with him.did i answer your question?
2006-08-12 12:28:17 · answer #3 · answered by mother mission 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is embarrassed that he asked you out and you said no.he thought you were sending him signals that you liked him like that, but he was wrong. to tell the truth he probably on became friends with you so he could one day ask you out. it might not be like it was before cos he knows that nothing will happen and he doesnt want to waste his time. you have to give him space now.
2006-08-04 18:12:46 · answer #4 · answered by marcvialli 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
did you just say no?? or did you tell him you like him alot but only as a friend?if you told him you liked him only as a friend and he got that mad then he wasnt ready for a relationship..move on and give him time and except that he may not talk with you again
2006-08-12 15:29:24 · answer #5 · answered by jean h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you like him or just want to be friends with him. If you just want to be friends, maybe you should wait it out a bit. He will come around.
2006-08-04 18:14:05 · answer #6 · answered by wittlewabbit 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen...guys are always thinking of a girl as a potential lover or date. Maybe he wasnt your friend and he was planning to date you instead of having a beautiful friendship...or not..if you think he wasnt then try to be open with him and ask him directly what´s up? and he will have to make his point...
good luck!
2006-08-04 18:13:52 · answer #7 · answered by miliscal123 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give him time to cool off. Write a letter and mail or take it to him. I been there done that. I lost my best friend because we dated. In the letter explain what your feelings are for him and explain why you said no. Hopefully he will understand.
2006-08-12 15:58:13 · answer #8 · answered by Kat N 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friend is probably embarrassed and hurt. They will come around you just have to let time heal the wound.
2006-08-10 19:01:01 · answer #9 · answered by Calicos 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him your not ready to be in a reationship at the moment and you have alot of things going on in your life.. but you think his a great person...etc... goiod luck
2006-08-11 12:58:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋