when you find out, what do you do, can you trust him again?
2006-08-04 17:54:33 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You can forgive but you will never forget!!
2006-08-04 18:11:20 · answer #1 · answered by flaca 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My late husband did nothing but lie about everything. I tried hard to forgive & forget, I really did. He was my husband, I wanted the marriage to work because I did not wanna be divorced for a second time. But, he never changed, I soon learned his promises were as empty as his head. I gave up. I began to detatch from him slowly, I still had hopes he would change. There were also other issues such as alcoholisim & he was bipolar. Finally, I asked him to move out & he did. Our 5th. anniversary came & went & we were seperated. A few weeks later, he was dead. He comitted suicide. It hurt but thankfully I was detached enough to carry on. My way of seeing things after him, once a liar, always a liar. Get out while you can!! He will never change!! Good luck!!
2006-08-04 18:31:29 · answer #2 · answered by maryannmccarthy2003 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-01 12:04:31 · answer #3 · answered by rajkumar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you find out they are lieing, get as much information you can find and confront them. Do not be a door mate.
If they ask for forgiveness, give it, but do not forget. If it continues to happen, kick them out. Do not be a door mate. Seek conseling.
If it continues, file for seperation. Still does not get the message divorce.
Relationships are built on trust. If it is broken, it takes long time to rebuild. Do not be a doormate. Your partner will respect your strengh, even if you feel you are crumbling inside. No one respects a doormate, they respect people with backbones.
2006-08-04 18:54:29 · answer #4 · answered by kua20 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There will always be that nagging doubt. I have found that it fades with time, but it's still there. Hopefully the spouse will make the best effort they can and reform. I think it's human nature to want to trust.
2006-08-04 17:58:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh yea. When I found out I was SOOO incrediably angry! I filed for divorce and I would NEVER EVER trust him again!!!!
2006-08-04 18:28:24 · answer #6 · answered by carolscreation 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yup, never trusted her again and she is not my wife anymore
2006-08-04 17:57:49 · answer #7 · answered by zether 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forgive your spouse. One day you may need their forgiveness.
2006-08-04 18:00:36 · answer #8 · answered by sirpatrick1600 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, yell, scream, and cry...but pray for them. They'll more than likely do it again. Sorry. :(
2006-08-04 19:09:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
forgive and forget.. married life is full of obsticles ..
2006-08-04 17:58:46 · answer #10 · answered by kzzxguy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋