My husband is being werid.If i say hey lets go to the store, and then after we leave the store. I ask him can you go by the insurance place so i can drop of a bill. He freaks out he wants to know excally what we are doing before we leave the house. To me this is weird. He sleeps alot to. He goes from one extrem to the other like he hates his job once a new one. Last week he left the frig door open twice. He lives food out. Also we have just had a son 41/2 months a go he acts like he is a inconviance. One moment everythings fine and the next all hell is breaking loose. I just don't know what to do.
2006-08-04 17:49:59 · 17 answers · asked by cim_robotics 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
maybe he is going through the male menoplause or just needs a good root
2006-08-04 17:55:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like stress and depression. I know how stressful a new baby can be on the household. It could be a lot of things related to that.
1) money issues
2) stress from his job or someone he doesn't like there
3) sleepless night due to baby
4) worry about future of family
He won't like this, but he needs to see a doctor and just mention the things you have told here. A good doctor will check for something physical first, then address anything like stress or depression. He may only need to be medicated for a year and then wean off when the pressure of life is better.
2006-08-05 00:55:14 · answer #2 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He might be stress out. The burden is on him to be the bread winner and maybe the new baby has added some extra stress that he can't handle. He might need to seek professional help. It's not your fault. Men have very hard time expessing their feelings. Try to express you feelings to him in a calm and respectful manner. Ask him what you can do to easy his frustration. God Bless
2006-08-05 00:57:32 · answer #3 · answered by Smooda 1119 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just like some women suffer from post partuim some men go thru something simalir ask your self how long has he been this way he needs to see a doctor this could just get worse so i would hurry dont wait until the bomb goes off, you and that baby need to feel safe
2006-08-05 01:03:01 · answer #4 · answered by maike j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is definitely stressed out. He probably is depressed too. I speak from experience and maybe he's missing out on time with you, and maybe just having trouble adapting to this new child. I don't know about saying "Inconvenience," that might be too cruel for you to say.. But I think it might be his own way of adapting to things. Hope they improve for you.
2006-08-05 01:00:30 · answer #5 · answered by jokerscard692000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Speak to your Dr. about this. It maybe nothing but then again it could be something serious. It sounds like he could be Bi-polor I have episodes like that. If he won't go to the Dr. You talk to the Dr. next time you go. I am bi-polor myself. My moods go from happy to crying the next minute then ranting & raving. Good luck
2006-08-05 03:02:39 · answer #6 · answered by Becky H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a bad situation. Tell him we have a baby, step up and be the man. He needs to act responsible, and think about the family.
2006-08-05 00:56:13 · answer #7 · answered by JoeIQ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband is same way with needing to know what we're doing before leaving the hous e. Just otehr day we were going to nail salon and he was like 'wher is it' i said 'idk just look for one around here' knowing there are maybe 10 nearby and he freaked and turned around to go home lol
Its just how mn are. IMO Try talk ing to him thats best bet
2006-08-05 01:12:47 · answer #8 · answered by orntelove 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, this one definitely sounds like one you shouldn't be asking to the Yahoo Answers community.
2006-08-05 00:53:34 · answer #9 · answered by Phil 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he is sleepy,its hard to sleep with a newborn in the house.Also, he might be stressed out.
2006-08-05 01:04:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋