when she was at school she had a fling with a gal(u know how it is, being a teen and all) But that was a long time ago..and she doesnt think she's attracted to gals anymore. But we sometimes talk about this topic for hours. I'm confuse. Is she just curious or what??
2006-08-04 17:46:22 · 10 answers · asked by pinkBDana 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I noticed that (generally) people aren't that interested in the whole topic unless they want to go somewhere with it. It's hard to say what her motives are but I would say that she is at least curious and wanting to explore. Just my opinion though.
2006-08-04 18:01:18 · answer #1 · answered by NoBoysAllowed! 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I actually have a friend from childhood that does this,too. I'm bi,she says she's straight. We hadn't seen each other in years,and years. Now since we've began seeing each other as friends again,she's constantly asking questions about it. Growing up,I had a huge crush on her,and this is one of the ways I knew I was bi. When I ask my friend why she's always talking about it,she just says she's curious,you might ask your friend the same thing. But,I,like you,find myself wondering WHY after all this time is she still asking questions. Just do what I did,tell her you'll be her b*tch,lol,that's what I did,and my friend just laughed,so,if she laughs,ok,you have your answer,if not,you have something else all together,lol. Good luck!! Don't you just wish people would say what they mean and mean what they say?
2006-08-05 06:40:12 · answer #2 · answered by dragonfly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing to do is to ask HER. Sit her down and ask point-blank, "Are you bi or confused?" Only she can answer this honestly. If she says she's not attracted to "gals," then she's not. But should that keep you from hoping? If you want to hope, know that there's a possibility you'll get disappointed.
2006-08-04 19:14:46 · answer #3 · answered by stephenjwalk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would assume she's just curious; a lot of people are. There's a LOT of different views on the politics of it all (identity politics etc) as well as what constitutes "gay culture" (if such a thing even exists). It's all interesting stuff for some people to talk about, and she does have that fringe link to it all.
2006-08-05 14:06:34 · answer #4 · answered by Atropis 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, she is past curious if she had a fling with a 'gal' as you put it. She maybe nostalgic though.
2006-08-04 20:25:05 · answer #5 · answered by midnightdealer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who brings the subject of being gay up?
If it is her... she is interested. I used to bring that subject up with my friends, just to here what kind of reaction I would get if I ever told anyone about my feelings... One actually figured it out and asked me if I was a lesbian, I said no... I didn't totally lie... I'm Bi.
2006-08-04 21:56:31 · answer #6 · answered by Wolf_Girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her straight out (he he lol)... she's so comfortable talking to you,hopefully she'll give you an honest answer.It's appears to me that 'you' really want something more and in my experience that occasionally makes you see things that arent necessarily there...she was just curious...not enough to have a sexual relationship with me though..lol sigh
2006-08-04 20:36:58 · answer #7 · answered by raven jack. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure she STILL gets all flustered and wet just recalling her experiences!! Oh, yes... Give her a nice shoulder and back rub at home some time and just see where it goes. Be it weeks or years - She isn't done with girls!
2006-08-04 19:00:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably more than curious. You and some of your girls should work on her., I'll bet in six weeks she's out of the closet.
2006-08-05 01:34:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't place any bets on this one...either she's curious or she's interested...I don't know.
2006-08-04 17:56:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋