I really only want to have s-- with him. No strings attached.
2006-08-04 17:31:41 · 21 answers · asked by lifeisshort 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
How much do you value his services to your son? Out of ethics he should turn you down if you tell him what you told us. Obviously I am not including the morality issue: Marriage-adultery, but some other answerer will.
If you tell him, your son will loose a doctor and you a potential friend. I suggest forget it.
2006-08-04 17:38:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 1⤋
I think you should leave it be, if this may help get a shower massage, and call it Dr. Whatever and have a romance with that, in the final outcome, you will be cleaner, you will not have taken the chance of ruining a marriage (or even interrupting what the good doctor and his wife may have). You can spend your extra time, doing fun things this summer with your child. After your son is all tucked in, have a trip to your own bathroom and see "Dr. Whatever" the shower massager. Believe me this is a solution to the problem without anyone getting hurt unless the hose on the shower massager is too short for you to recline during your "uh relationship"!
Good luck and when it comes to someone else's man, hands off! Forbidden fruit may seem sweeter, but it may also cause you some huge problems for you and others, please do not be so selfish just for sex!
2006-08-04 17:53:29 · answer #2 · answered by ruthie_msw 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um, sweetie, you're married and you have a child. I call them "strings". You can't have "no strings attached" sex when you have these two things. You have responsibilities in your life that precede your wanting to have an affair with your son's pediatrician. Get a hobby or something else to fill up the void you obviously have and leave this one alone.
2006-08-04 17:55:26 · answer #3 · answered by mytreacheryiseternal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a joke, right? Did you ever think that maybe the attraction is because he is "off limits?" There are a lot of hot men out there and you chose the one that you see because of your child.
I would think that a good doctor would turn you down if you even mention it. Somehow it seems unethical to have a fling with the mother of a patient.
Take you fantasies elsewhere. Don't try to get someone else to break their marriage vows just because you think he is hot.
2006-08-04 17:40:47 · answer #4 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave it be. you could go ahead and have a one night stand with him, but every time you take your son to him, that night will always be on your mind. If you both are married, don't jeopardize ruining both of your marriages. I can't tell you what to do, only suggest what I think is right. Only you can decide from right and wrong.
2006-08-04 17:42:03 · answer #5 · answered by Dorah C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go ahead and have a one night stand with him. if u dont with him then u probably will still want to get this out of ur system and u will end up doing it with some single guy who will either want u to leave ur husband or he will go around braggin to his buddies about scoring with some married chick and ur husband will find out. at least this doctor is married so he will keep things on the down low too!
2006-08-04 17:37:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is wrong with people???....Honestly..why are you even married in the first place?...He IS married...you may think of it as a one night stand and nothing else..but what about his wife???..I am SURE she would think of it as much more than that..why would you want to ruin a marriage..just to satisfy your own desire???....that's just wrong...and I feel sorry for your husband..My advice..would be to file for a divorce..so that he can find a faithful wife that would be true to him..and if you want to have s-- with someone...PLEASE make sure that thier single.....and one day when you do find the right man that you want to be faithful with...you might want to watch out for women out there that don't care there married!!
2006-08-04 18:52:42 · answer #7 · answered by me_ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can fantasize, but that's it. It would be wrong of you to have sex with someone besides your husband. Plus, every time you have to take your son to the doctor, it would be a little awkward.
2006-08-04 17:43:00 · answer #8 · answered by crystal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you know that this is a normal phenomenon to have the hots for your doc and you aren't the only one but for the Love of God just SHUT UP and forget about it.
2006-08-04 18:34:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make sure your son gets a lollipop at the next visit and leave it at that. Leave it be and go home and masturbate
2006-08-04 17:45:36 · answer #10 · answered by Champ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋