would you put up with this ??

Question

i am what we would call the bread winner of the family .. i bring in the $ and i pay most bills i work he stays home and waches kids ... but sometimes complains about even doing that much meanwhile im putting the roof over our heads trying to make ends meat here ,

Answer 1

Have him babysit another kid or two from the neighborhood. That will make you more money and keep him too busy to complain!

Answer 2

think about it the other way around.

How often do you hear women who are stay at home moms complain to their husbands who are the bread winners about how tough their jobs actually are, and the husbands who work at actual jobs never believe the wives.

I think both jobs are equally as taxing, and you have to be understanding of one another...if you traded places for even a day you'd probably understand that neither job is necessarily easier or harder than the other.

Answer 3

in todays society its becoming more and more common for women to be the main bred winner so the man stays home, but as any at home mom will tell you raising being at home its not as easy and can be very stressful so that's probably why he complains and as any man will tell being the main bread winner is not easy either so that why you feel that way.now my thinking i believe when god threw Adam and eve out from paradise he made Adam work and eve to bear children, its like us trying to fry we can do for a while but its the birds who have finesse in it. basically women are the beings god chose to take care of the kids thats why it come natural to them and us well we're just are good at working

Answer 4

Hmmm that's tough. I think you should sit your man down and tell him how you feel about his complaining. You have a VERY solid point, and if he really loves you, he'll stop the complaining and apoligize. If not, rethink your feelings for him. You're a hard worker, and shouldn't have to put up with that after a day at work. Good Luck!!!

Answer 5

girl find a man who will support u u know back in the day men did all the work and women stayed home with the kids and i feel that it should be that for every female hell my man take care of me in every which way i do nothing but clean house do lanudry cook and take care of the baby it should be the same for u think about it k.....?

Answer 6

So, if you're saying he's not a good house husband, than no I wouldn't put up with it. If you're saying you wish the lazy bum would get a job, then I wouldn't put up with it. If he stays home because he can't make as much money as you, then I'd ask myself if I were jealous because he stays home.

Answer 7

I don't understand what the problem is..men did that for years..wife stayed home with kids and man went to work.. What's the big deal?

Answer 8

Talk it out or go get help.. try working it out before you make a decision you might regret later.. cause this isn't between just you and your husband.. it affects the kids too.. a lot.

Answer 9

I think you should make him get a job and kind the kids a baby sitter!!! So you have more money coming in and a little going to a babysitter!!

Answer 10

you should be putting this question to him instead of us/ and by the way keep fighting for what you want/ your kids are worth the best things you can get for them/ and being a tired overworked underappreciated mom is not doing you any good or teaching them values they should accept from their relationships when they grow up~~~~remember children live what they learn~~~