i am 17 and gay and my bf just forced me to have sex with him what do i do?
2006-08-04 17:18:31 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
i need help and he used a condom
2006-08-04 17:23:31 · update #1
i feel so bad i wish i could just rewind my life
2006-08-04 17:25:11 · update #2
i am gay and ididnt want to do it cuz i eas mad at hime cuz we got in an argument
2006-08-04 17:26:11 · update #3
he forced me and i cant tell my parents sicne they kicked me out at 16
2006-08-04 17:27:47 · update #4
he only does this when he is mad and this is the second ime it has happened
2006-08-04 17:29:08 · update #5
i am a guy and i am not a virign this was my 3 rd time with him a this time and 1 other time it was forced and yes it does hurt i feel do drgraded
2006-08-04 17:31:46 · update #6
i am a guy and i am not a virign this was my 3 rd time with him a this time and 1 other time it was forced and yes it does hurt i feel do degraded
2006-08-04 17:32:04 · update #7
itryed to fight but he just faught back and he is my boy friend
2006-08-04 17:33:07 · update #8
i cant leave him cuz if i do he will kill me
2006-08-04 17:35:06 · update #9
when i fought back he just punched me and now my mouth is bleeding and my butt hurts and i cant go to the er cuz he stole my car
2006-08-04 17:43:58 · update #10
HELP oww my jaw and butt hurt really bad
2006-08-04 17:46:17 · update #11
sweetie you need to go to the ER if u feel that you were "raped" ur boyfriedn should not have done that. You could get aids or some terrible STD. GO TO THE EMERGEMCY ROOM! Good Luck
2006-08-04 17:23:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ohh, hon, don't listen to the stupid comments that you get. If he forced you then it is called rape. No matter if you are in a relationship or not and there is no excuse for it. Do you really want to be with someone that is not going to take your feelings into consideration not to mention the disrespect he just showed to you. I would (and have in a similar situation) talk to your parents and the authorities. I know it doesn't sound like a good option but in the long run you may stop this from happening to someone else! I did!
2006-08-04 17:26:05 · answer #2 · answered by stall_out 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK first of all why are people saying ewww gross to a gay couple I'm mean Gawd they are just like everyone else but they love the same sex.What's the big deal?You need to report it and hope to God nothing happens.It can't be called rape if you are in a relationship with him and you are a certain age but of course the certain age has something to do statutory rape.
2006-08-04 17:50:03 · answer #3 · answered by ♥HunterMarie♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boyfriend or not; gay or not; what your "boyfriend" (implying someone who cares about you) did is RAPE you. Yes, you can be raped by someone you're in a relationship with. In heterosexual situations it's called spousal rape.
At any rate, what should you do??? You should get the hell away from him. If he forces you to have sex only when he's angry with you, you're in an abusive relationship, and it's never going to get better....in fact it will only escalate. You need to get out and away from him. He'll probably say things like, "I won't do it again, I promise" or "I'll change" or "I love you, please don't go" or whatever. But do NOT believe him. Abusers NEVER change - EVER.
2006-08-04 17:36:40 · answer #4 · answered by Brutally Honest 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he forced you into doing it its called rape but if you didn't put a fight up to stop him well nothing much you can do i would assume you were a virgin before this you poor thing i bet your butt hurts hope he lubed up honey you are starting to sound like you are bullshiting us but if you are serious you can call the police you don't need a car plz don't be stupid and stay in an abusive relationship you need to get out now
2006-08-04 17:29:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah, what another person said, you need to go to the er, and they'll do that rape kit, and get the police involved if that's what you want. it don't matter if you're a man or a woman, nobody has the right to force you to have sex.
next time, bite it and run....but it sounds abusive, and you shouldn't be with someone who abuses you.
2006-08-04 17:29:15 · answer #6 · answered by alfjr24 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, let me say that I am sorry to hear that. If he raped you, and sweetie he did, then call the police and make a report and try to find a grief/rape counseling center in your area. It may help this from happening to someone else. Best of luck to you.
2006-08-04 17:26:35 · answer #7 · answered by lovely lady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd go to the hospital. If he did not use a condom they can get samples. Then file charges. Get a restraining order if you have to. Just because you are gay does not mean anything rape is rape!!!!
2006-08-04 17:56:08 · answer #8 · answered by jacymay2508 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to the ER. And after that leave the sob. He has an anger issue and nobody deserves to be treated like that, especially by someone they are with
2006-08-04 17:31:50 · answer #9 · answered by Sonkrisjewel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a little confusing. It sounds like you're saying that you are a male gay and your male gay boyfriend just forced you to have sex with him.
2006-08-04 17:25:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋