i have a companion in school(she's my classmate in all subj.we're in college)and happens to be my highschool mate(she's a girl then)so basically she's the only person i know in our section(this was how we got a littlecloser).I suddenly feel unease w/ her when our classmates teased us that we're dating & that was when it suddenly hit me that she's a tomboy.i was so shocked and i wanted to get away from her.i never really noticed the transition though i noticed slight changes but i never gave any meaning to it until what had happened(the teasings)and the fact that it's just the two of us together(coz my friends are in different section and have different sched)eating lunch,going to d library,etc.this is really the time i give attention to all the changes that happened 2 her and she's really a tomboy(i hate tomboy,i just do,ok!)she acts,talks,dresses like a boy/man and the way she looks at others.how will i tell her how i feel coz it's hard 2 confront her and i don't want to hurt her?
2006-08-04 16:58:16 · 4 answers · asked by bleachedstreak 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
so if u liked hanging with her b4 u realized she was a tomboy, wats the problem?
u really DO need to wake up. just get over it if she's a good person. truist me, if ur so afraid of hurting her feelings, then u like hanging with her, don' be stupid.. u never know, a few years down the line she might grow out of being a tomboy and u might just be attracted to her...
2006-08-12 10:44:06 · answer #1 · answered by cute_but_psycho876 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it seems tt it is not easy to solve this problem. Basically, I think u have to tell her yr feeling before any other problems arises. It is best to resolve the problem early before it grow bigger. Sometimes it is inevitable tt someone will get hurt in this type of situation. I think it is easier to tell yr friend early before she dropped deeper into this type of relationship. Imagine if u tell her abt this much later, what will be her reaction? I think u shld know better than me. So tell her now to avoid future embrassment.
2006-08-05 01:12:58 · answer #2 · answered by Clown & Joker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try not to exclude. Try to figure out a way to include her some. She is already uncommon. I'm not sure she deserves to feel rejected for the social pressure reasons you've given.
2006-08-10 16:20:18 · answer #3 · answered by onemorealternative 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wake up!!! She could be a lesbian, but if your her friend ....why is the association bothering you....
2006-08-11 13:04:26 · answer #4 · answered by voluptoustaureanfemale 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋