Are We Compatible?

Question

I am a Cancer. My boyfriend is a Gemini. Will this relationship work or are we too different?

Answer 1

Cancer & Gemini

When Gemini and Cancer come together in a love affair, it may be a rather curious relationship. Sensitive, emotional Cancer has trouble communicating clearly, but clear communication is what defines Gemini. Gemini's chivalrous nature and silver tongue may encourage the Crab to come out of its shell more quickly than usual; Cancer, in turn, can teach Gemini to slow down and appreciate the world, which the frenetic Twins hardly ever take time to do. If Gemini seems to ignore Cancer or doesn't provide them with as much reassurance and intimacy as Cancer needs, trouble may ensue. These two Signs approach the world in such different manners that they must be able to understand and accept one another's differences. Cancer is the Sign of home and hearth, while Gemini is the thinker. Gemini can easily slip into the role of Cancer's knight in shining armor; Cancer returns that favor with their characteristic urge to protect the ones they love. Quality of home life is important to Cancer, and Gemini will be spoiled by their Cancer lover's hearty home cooking, soft bed and other creature comforts. Cancer is strongly intuitive and maintains an almost psychic connection with their loved ones, but can tend toward possessiveness and idealization of their Gemini partner. If Gemini just reassures Cancer that they're loved and cherished, all will go smoothly. Gemini is ruled by the Planet Mercury (Communication) and Cancer is ruled by the Moon (Emotions). Cancer tends to keep their emotions bottled up inside as they have trouble expressing themselves. They envy Geminis their gift of open, clear communication afforded by the influence of Mercury. Gemini, in turn, can benefit from Cancer's intuitive approach, so different from Gemini's bubbly, surface nature; Cancer can teach Gemini to slow down and appreciate life instead of passing by the good things in their rush to get to the next new thing. Gemini is an Air Sign and Cancer is a Water Sign. If these two Signs can work together they can be a great team; after all, the best decisions are made by incorporating the emotions and the intellect. The trouble for these two lies in learning to cooperate. They come from such opposite points of view that at times it can seem as if they simply have nothing in common. Deep, emotional Cancer can also sometimes dampen Gemini's airy enthusiasm, and light, fast-paced Gemini can leave Cancer feeling ruffled, even tattered. Balance can be achieved if they learn to talk openly with one another. Gemini is a Mutable Sign and Cancer is a Cardinal Signs. Gemini is flexible, willing to go with the flow and follow another's lead; Cancer is an initiator and likes to provide that lead. Gemini may try to lead by being brave, even confrontational; for it to run smoothly between these two, they both need to learn when to back down and let the other lead the way. What's the best aspect of the Gemini-Cancer relationship? Once they realize they're allies, they can soar to great heights together. Gemini is always thinking ahead and Cancer is quietly supporting these ideas behind the scenes. Each partner's ability to provide what the other is lacking makes theirs a fulfilling relationship.

Love & Blessings
Milly

Answer 2

oh hey i`m a cancer too!
i think they do..my dad is a Gemini and so is my sister, i get along great with them. u should always remember that Geminis may seem so intellectual but deep inside they are very sensitive and kind just like you.
i hope this will work out between you two..i wish u all the luck.

Answer 3

Hmmm rephrase your question, like, "I like to eat meat and my boyfriend's a vegetarian. He leaves the toilet seat up all the time, and my cat's always clawing his PS2 cords, will we be compatible?" I think that's more information to go off of. ;)

Honey, it doesn't matter when you're born, it's all what you make of it. You carry with you your past experiences, and he his. If you work together, and have good amounts of respect, honnesty, discipline and communication, you should be fine, regardless of sign. Right?

Answer 4

it should work out just fine. i am a Gemini and made the mistake of marrying a Scorpio!!!--disaster city, if u really want 2 no go to iVillage.com and u can compare for yourself

Answer 5

Don't go by what signs you are. You can answer that question by how the two of you get along, and what do you have in common.

Answer 6

BS about the Zodiac, you decide if your compatible, your probably not if you guys don't have bunch in common.

Answer 7

If you spell Chuck Norris in Scrabble, you win. Forever.

Answer 8

Usually the two mix good, but u never know.

Answer 9

If you have to ask, youre not compatible.

Answer 10

Nope because ur a girl. JK. YOU CANNOT RELY ON SOME GAY THING SOMEONE TYPED TO PREDICT YOUR FUTURE OR WHO YOU CAN GO WITH ONLY YOU CAN! ITS A LIE ITELL U, ITS A LIE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!