I'm a lesbian and I have men hitting on me all the time. When I tell them I'm gay, they never believe me and keep trying to pursue me or ask dumb questions. I usually tend to just ignore them or just flat out say "I only like p*ssy" to get rid of them. I was wondering what other lesbians do when faced with this problem?
2006-08-04 16:25:41 · 18 answers · asked by indrep33 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Don't talk dirty to them. They might take it as a turn on. Don't tell them you are gay. They don't get it. They think that this means you and your girl friend are going to want to sleep with him.
Just kindly and firmly let him know you arn't interested and don't even bother giving him a reason. You don't owe him one. Does he pay your rent? Why do you have to explain anything to him.
2006-08-04 17:47:33 · answer #1 · answered by Think.for.your.self 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
It should be enough to say no, but the truth of it is that the sad state of affairs that is oursociety means that most hetero men (OK and a lot of gay men too) think that they are god's gif tot he world and there is no reaosn anyone should not want them. Or they figure you just havn't found the right guy yet (I'ver heard that from women before) Sometimes you just ahve to tell it in a waythat they understand... such as , "I said no, and if I have to say it again, I am going to sya it by ripping your ballocks off and shoving them down your throat!" Ok that was a joke, but levity is oft the cure for the mundane. Good luck to you.
2006-08-04 16:35:19 · answer #2 · answered by mresl2005 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a gay male, with an older brother who is also gay; before I was out to him, he told me if I was ever in a gay bar and was being unwantedly hit on to say I was "taken" and NOT straight. The moral of the story here is that guys can be jerks no matter what you're orientation, especially when drunk. There's something stupid about the "challenge" and "converting" and all that. So, I guess that would be my advice, is to just say you're spoken for. Gender neutral; let them assume what they want. Or, depending on personal preference, "not looking".
2006-08-05 14:40:48 · answer #3 · answered by Atropis 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Easiest way to get rid of any unwanted suitor is to claim you have gonorrhea (or any other STD of choice). If you don't mind some rumors going around about you, this is the best way.
Another option is to say "all right—but only if you let me **** you up your *** with my strap-on." Generally safe, but you might run into one of those few straight guys who either know they like it or are willing to give it a try—so be careful.
If they just don't believe you, pull a dental dam out of your pocket, stretch it tight, wiggle your tongue at them through it, and then say "I like puuuussssy" very slowly. They might believe you then, and you might get to educate someone as to what a dental dam is.
The annoying problem here is that straight guys think lesbians are hot. That makes other things that ought to work wonderfully practically useless.
2006-08-04 20:23:53 · answer #4 · answered by hynkle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him u got 7 kids an 5 babie daddy's. Which 3 outta 5 r crazy an interfere with any relationship u try to b in. An if that doesnt work then do something like: Start talkin 2 u're self ( make him think somethings wrong with u ). Think'a bout it....
2006-08-04 20:46:25 · answer #5 · answered by sophatup 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A knee to the groin is usually a pretty sure bet. I am not a lesbian , but this seems to work regardless. (PS/ I am just joking btw, however, if they cannot take no for an answer, then maybe a little direct contact to the family jewels is not such a bad answer after all)
2006-08-04 19:51:28 · answer #6 · answered by rp_iowa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just say it or show without insulting them, they will accept it in time, some right away but some don't specially if the guy really likes you.
just be yourself, so others don't get confused. act the way how you feel, men tend to like lesbo because they don't know that you are a lesbo in the first place. ^^ you must be beautiful, that's why ^^ . goodluck!
2006-08-04 16:55:21 · answer #7 · answered by Mhazeâ?¢ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Introduce them to your good guy friend (gay guy friend). That should distract him. You are a very smart and wise woman. Tell straight women and gay guys to only eat p*ssy. Sucking dick is atrocious. Very intelligent, you are. Why can't everybody be like you?
2006-08-04 16:43:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
im a guy so i would be able to tell you what puts a guy down
tell him that you r going to meet him somewhere in 5 minutes and say you need to go freshen up
when he goes remain where you r
i bet you 9 outa10 guys will wait wherever you told them for at least an hour
2006-08-04 18:28:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I work with a gay chick. She just asks the guys for their mom's phone number. She tells them she likes older women. That usually gets rid of them. When they get persistent, like offering to "fix" her- she says, "Don't you remember that night we met in that bar? It was your little ****er that turned me gay in the first place."
If that doesn't work, nothing will.
2006-08-04 16:33:41 · answer #10 · answered by Professor Chaos386 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋