I was in a off and on relationship for about 7 years and finally decided enough is enough. I'm now trying to get over my anger and pain so I can move on. How do I do this?
2006-08-04 15:58:25 · 10 answers · asked by Alesha C 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
One day at a time! Time is the only thing that seems to mend a broken heart! Keep busy and active and soon the hurt will be a distant memory
2006-08-04 16:04:25 · answer #1 · answered by KO 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will come with time. Do not allow yourself to focus on this individual, and what he did or did not do for you. You don't say why you decided to end the relationship after 7 years. Nevertheless, something must not have been right to take such action.
Keep busy, make new freinds and take care of yourself. There is no need for you to feel sorry for yourself, because it really does no good and only magnifies the problems and issues. Best thing you can do is move forward.....no sense crying over spilled milk.
2006-08-04 23:14:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, I'm sorry for you anger and pain.
Stay busy! Anything to keep your mind off that person. Don't start following him, calling him, etc.... it only belittles yourself.
Don't jump into another relationship right away.
And time is the only thing that truely heals the hurt.
2006-08-04 23:06:11 · answer #3 · answered by Lindy357 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pray! and take it one day at a time.I understand it's not an easy process but you can do it. Sometimes you have to look at it as there is someone better for you someone who's going to love you and take care of you the way you should be taken care of. Be strong during this time of heartache you can do it.
2006-08-05 00:33:56 · answer #4 · answered by Bebee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Write a dear john letter. Take a walk, Go to a funny movie. Something, anything.
2006-08-04 23:02:10 · answer #5 · answered by di12381 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seven years is a long time. Expect it to take you about the same amount of time to heal. Sorry, but it really does take time.
2006-08-04 23:10:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you never get over the pain but in time your forget...I said forget but you never forgive....big difference Start doing the things you did before he came into your life and most of all dont let him see your pain it only pumps up his ego
2006-08-04 23:48:31 · answer #7 · answered by proud to be an American 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am one of them that do not get over it I learn to live with it and pretty soon just forget?
2006-08-04 23:09:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
by being thankful your free to explore a more meaningful relationship , everyday that goes by smile cus you are on your way to better days
2006-08-04 23:13:56 · answer #9 · answered by wilco254 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give it time. time heals all wounds.
2006-08-04 23:22:51 · answer #10 · answered by lilalovespink 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋