IM A BLACK CHICK AND I LISTEN TO STUFF LIKE MARILYN MANSON AND IM STARTING TO WEAR ALL BLACK...BUT THE WEIRD THING IS I STILL LISTEN TO HIP-HOP. MY FRIENDS SAY IMMA WANNA BE BUT IM NOT TRYING TO BE ANYONE BUT MYSELF...ITS NOT MY FAULT I LOVE THE COLOR BLACK AND LIKE THAT KIND OF MUSIC. ITS JUST ME
2006-08-04 15:56:08 · 49 answers · asked by shay_296 1 in Beauty & Style ➔ Fashion & Accessories
NOPE im the same way(i dont listen to goth music ) i like punk rock, pop rock, and alternative music which my friends classify as white people music, and i also get accused of trynna be white, and my friends say i even sound white.
but i dont think your trynna be any body but your self your just different from everybody else your not following the RIGHT w ay to be based on race your doin what you what and what you like and u shouldn't have to change it took me a long time to figure that out but im okay with myself now....well almost but i've learned its good to be different cuz people will most likely remember you more in the long run
i say ROCK ON!!!! lol do what you do
2006-08-04 22:10:12 · answer #1 · answered by Habibi_Amour 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
When people start cults to feel as if they belong, you can often get stereotyped into those catagories depending on what you wear and what you do. Even if what you are wearing and listening to is just you and your idea completely innate and original you may often be accused of being 'goth'/emo or something similar. My favourite colour is black, my entire wardrobe is black, i think hip-hop is amazing and I listen to marylin manson too. But i hate labels and I am not goth.
So look at it this way: You may feel self-conscious about what you are wearing or listening to because even though you are being yourself, people are accusing of being a 'goth' wanna be. But if you were to stop and try to act more 'normal' it is only then that you would be lying to yourself and not being yourself. So ignore these people, and just be yourself. People will see that soon enough. And if they don't: no loss!
2006-08-04 16:01:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
am i a wanna be goth???
im a black chick and i listen to stuff like marilyn manson and im starting to wear all black...but the weird thing is i still listen to hip-hop.my friends say imma wanna be but im not trying to be anyone but myself...its not my fault i love the color black and like that kind of music.its just me
2006-08-04 21:04:53 · answer #3 · answered by arvin hubahib 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know what you are, and if you have doubts obviously you're not who you think you are. Choose music that you like - don't listen to it just to be able to brag that you listen to it. Plus, being goth isn't about wearing all black...that's for poseurs. If you were a true goth you'd know what you were representing. Most teenagers a bit clueless on this part, so here we go - read this and study up!
2006-08-04 16:01:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl... be yourself... who cares what anyone else says?!! They wanna call you goth.. let them. I am a person that listens to every kind of music...and I dress how ever I wanna dress and don't care what anyone says! You have to do you first - if your friends wanna put u down cuz of the things you like - then it's time to get some new friends!
2006-08-04 16:05:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
music like marilyn manson probably doesnt mean your goth you would have to wear the lipstick finger nail polish and chains on your pants and hang in a group with them and whatever else they do but all black maybe your trying to hide something and it makes you look on the dark side to your friends wear colorful jewelry .
2006-08-04 16:15:49 · answer #6 · answered by Gypsy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No.Just because someone wears all black,that doesn't mean they're goth.It just means you're wearing what you wanna wear.Don't listen when they say you're just a wannabe.If u wanna be a goth,but listen to hip hop at the same time,you're still a goth,but you listen to hip hop...
Hope I helped!:)
2006-08-04 16:00:43 · answer #7 · answered by tetrisss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't label yourself, just be you. I love hip-hop and Manson too...and a bunch of other stuff as well. I have never fit into any "category" and people seem to respect that...keep doing your thaang.
2006-08-04 16:02:28 · answer #8 · answered by NA 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most of the Goth people I've known were seriously depressed or depressing... Why ruin yourself like that?
To each their own. Do whatever makes you happy ~ and I don't mean a childish "I can do whatever I want and this is how I'm gonna show you" happy. It's short lasting and detrimental in the end.
Hope you grow out of it.
2006-08-04 16:00:34 · answer #9 · answered by Z33K Zmorphod 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U know, you should be who you want to. dont let anyone stop you from being who you are. you dont have to be necisarily be labled goth just because you like black. im black to and my best friends are goth/punk. and i still listen to rap and hip hop. it doest matter what other people think, because in the long run who do u want to be happy, your friends or you. express yourself the best way u can you dont wanna be unhappy not being yourself. trust me.
2006-08-04 16:02:00 · answer #10 · answered by kyanii 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋