When one person or both person in the relationship is insecure, d that causes damage to the relationship. The insecure one won't trust the other and will try to isolate them from everyone they think is more than a friend.
2006-08-04 15:47:01 · 11 answers · asked by Monkey 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Unfortunately there is a reason(s) why people are insecure in relationships. Usually they have been burned before. The best medicine one can take for insecurity is this. Build up your self confidence. Work on your self esteem BEFORE you allow yourself to be in a relationship. Then at least your bringing an emotionally healthy individual into the relationship. There are many books on the subject. Check in to it? But get help before you start dating. Otherwise you will bring your hang-ups to each and every relationship. And there will be many.
2006-08-04 16:03:33 · answer #1 · answered by ktltel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Insecurity is one way relationships can be destroyed. I know i would not want to be in a relationship with someone who is insecure and controlling. Isolation is a form of control, and who needs that? It is your life and you should take a firm hold of it and decided if this person is really for you.
2006-08-04 22:57:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being insecure doesn't harm the relationship not talking to your partner about your insecurity is what harms the relationship. Whenever your with someone that you take an interest to, this person in some way is important to you, so always share your feelings. Your feeling are important to you right?
2006-08-04 22:54:55 · answer #3 · answered by BABYWHITE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think people cheating is the biggest destroyers of relationships.
What does insecure mean anyways? If you mean jealous, I've never been jealous, and that's probably why my ex cheated.
What is there to be insecure about? Either they're cheaters or not. The only women I've heard use the word insecure, is the cheaters(not necessarily you, but in my life).
2006-08-04 22:54:25 · answer #4 · answered by Nep 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't be with someone who isolates you and doesn't trust you, because trust is a very important factor in a relationship. But too much trust is bad too, 'cause, face it... Things that were never supposed to happen. Happen. I mean, I wouldn't trust my girlfriend alone in a room with her ex...
2006-08-04 23:07:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you mean insecurity as in jealousy, then I agree. I am insecure of my body, but it doesn't hurt my relationship at all.
2006-08-04 22:54:34 · answer #6 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Insecurity kills too many relationships to count
2006-08-04 22:53:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Insecurity may lead to lack of trust...isolation is never the answer.
Look within my dear, look within.
2006-08-04 22:57:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Couldn't agree more. That's why a good many of mine failed. I have a hard time trusting after being burned a few times. I see it in my friends too.
2006-08-04 22:51:32 · answer #9 · answered by Beck 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is!
You actually have a good question here.
To many people do not realize this untill its to late.
And sometime not even then.
2006-08-04 22:51:11 · answer #10 · answered by Biker 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋