I don't consider myself to be a needy person, but I have a girlfriend that calls several times a day, wants to come over all the time, and often overextends her welcome. What kind of experiences have any of you guys had?
2006-08-04 15:31:57 · 11 answers · asked by kiltedbiker 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I had a friend who called me SEVERAL times a day.. I had caller ID and tracked her at 15 calls in one day. And if I didn't answer my phone, she'd come over and bang on my door for 15 minutes. And when I told her I felt like just sitting at home, she'd say "Oh ok, I'll come over." She didn't take a hint. I often had to hide from her. But my favorite part was when she had a boyfriend.. then she wouldn't contact me at all. And she'd ditch me for him. But you bet as soon as they broke up, there she was, stalking me. Sounds like your friend is a bit too needy. I eventually had to tell my friend to go to hell.
2006-08-04 15:37:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
From what I've read, I understand that you hate your friend, but you don't have to be so rude about it. You sound very conserved, don't have time for foolishness, and very serious. Plus, not being her friend because everyone hates her is probably the worst excuse I've ever heard. If anything, it should make you want to be her friend, so that she doesn't feel so lonely. Analyzing that last sentence, you said you were a shy person and don't like that about yourself, and by your description she sounds very outgoing and doesn't care if she looks "foolish." Maybe you two could learn some things from each other; She can teach you about being more outgoing, and you can teach her to mellow out some. That way you two can find a balance. A little known fact as well, and I can tell this from experience, the happiest people are usually the most depressed. I don't know, but it's something to think about. But if you still want to just cut your losses from her, just tell her you don't want to be her friend anymore. Simple. Honestly, ignoring her and making yourself unavailable would just make things worse and lead to unwanted and unneeded confrontation. Hope this helps.
2016-03-26 23:38:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Needy person either call alot or not atall.either it come out or hide in ashell.Both of way its a cry for help.Talk to your friend may be she need youn rt. now.
2006-08-04 15:40:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you mean as like like girlfriend or only friend atht is a girl if then she maybe wants to spend sometime together again and she is geoles because you might spend so much time on the phone with your crush or someone else
2006-08-04 15:37:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She needs to get a life. That is the epitome of what it is to be needy. So sorry for you.
2006-08-04 15:36:54 · answer #5 · answered by doesitmatter 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've had friends like that also. They act like they're yr b/f, which isn't cool if too needy also.
2006-08-04 15:37:30 · answer #6 · answered by annastasia1955ca 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not saying u shouldn't have a life of your own...
But if you find yourself with someone who acts like this....
well.....
be compassionate. It's because none else will love them or talk to them, or show them even the littlest kindness.
2006-08-04 19:47:24 · answer #7 · answered by ddesa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would tell her i need some time to myself. Since Im a very reclusive person with ...oh...no friends whatsoever except my one and only I havent had that problem- ever!
2006-08-04 15:36:17 · answer #8 · answered by cats4ever2k1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
imagine a dog who cuts you off all the time like "look at me, look at me"
2006-08-04 15:35:35 · answer #9 · answered by manzr2001 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All they do is ask for something,or a favor...something like that
2006-08-04 15:35:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋