Previously, I asked a question.
I'm not really sure what to do. I'm a homosexual male.
I really like this guy because hes all I ever wanted in a guy. He makes me smile and feel happy on the inside. He isn't really a friend of mine since we never talk. More of aqanctinces
I really want him to know how I feel about him, but hes kind of a popular person. We are going to the same high school next year, but I wanna tell him how I feel. I don't really have the guts too. I'm really shy and lost. I loved this person for 6 years and still do. I don't know if he is a homosexual or not. I've even cried thinking about him. Hes like stuck in my brain. No matter what, there is something that always reminds me of him. I just can't stop thinking about him. What should I do?
2006-08-04 15:28:24 · 5 answers · asked by Y!User 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
oooohhhhhhhh the toughy with this one is you should tell him but if you do muster the guts to tell him he might just give you a stoney silence response and you are back to where you started - acquanitances who don't do any talkin.
I think you should talk to him so you can either get to know him better or move on. This being in limbo is purgatory. But try and get a response from him whether it is "ok lets go out" or "**** off I'm not gay". Either way you can move forward in your life. Maybe try and talk to him where he's not totally surrounded and therefore distracted by his friends so you can gage this honest response.
2006-08-04 15:55:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a real tuffy! especially since you are still in high school. even if the other is gay, he might not admit it, because he would be afraid of ruining his rep. I don't know if you have been open with your classmates or not on your sexuality, but if not you could be in for some real rough times, especially if you talk to the guy and he tells others. you know how other people can be about this kind of topic, i feel for you and hope everything works out, just remember you are still young guys come and go. much luck!
2006-08-04 22:40:51 · answer #2 · answered by red 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my opinion is that if u have had these feelings 4 that long u either need 2 take a risk and talk 2 him or move on. because u don't want this situation hold u back from something or someone else.
2006-08-04 22:39:41 · answer #3 · answered by Scooter 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him how you feel.
2006-08-04 22:37:19 · answer #4 · answered by nice girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
BE STRAIGHT!
2006-08-04 22:41:43 · answer #5 · answered by doesitmatter 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋