We are in our thirties, does he still find me desirable? Please only answer if you are married.
2006-08-04 15:28:12 · 16 answers · asked by kc 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It makes me hate him.
2006-08-04 15:45:47 · update #1
it makes me not want sex with him
2006-08-04 15:48:02 · update #2
My shrink would say he has a fear of intimacy.
2006-08-04 17:46:01 · answer #1 · answered by vinetwo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-07-26 01:31:36 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I am sure he still finds you desirable. Men are just hooked up different then women. They are very "visual". I wouldn't think twice about the porn stuff as long as in the end he is with you and not the girl in the movie.
2006-08-04 15:37:46 · answer #3 · answered by Rudy'sdaughter 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello?
You threw a smokebomb in the room, and then casually left. What does "barely legal" porn mean? Known underage teenagers, or simply petite women?
Sadly, porn is commonplace.
However, wanting to look at teens and younger teens is a problem. Its hard to give advice without more data.
2006-08-04 15:46:04 · answer #4 · answered by robabard 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does he? I mean you should know if he desires you... does he make you go without (sex)? When you say, "Hey, I'm wanting" does he answer your call? Does he come to you and say, "Hey, I'm wanting you.", and when he does, are you there for him?
If so, then you've nothing to fret about....
On the other hand... if he turns you down, or you're turning him down, then you've got something to worry about.
I can't speak for all men, but I'd never prefer porn over the woman I love....
2006-08-04 15:37:46 · answer #5 · answered by JRSK007 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is kinda creepy. If the porn is barely legal, he might have an interest in the illegal stuff. It sounds to me like he has issues. You might not be desirable to him because you are legal!
2006-08-04 15:38:52 · answer #6 · answered by Just a guy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am divorced, but it's pretty normal for men in their 30's to like watching porn. As long as he's watching it with you, I wouldn't worry too much. I do understand you being unsure if he still desires you. I am sure he does. Men are just wired differently.
2006-08-04 15:36:28 · answer #7 · answered by curiousgeorgia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with robabard...what do u mean "Barely Legal Porn"?
If he's looking at young girls..that's not healthy and you should protest and or leave.
2006-08-04 16:03:28 · answer #8 · answered by TCPBCP 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because men are stimulated by erotica ,doesn't mean he is not interested in you.spice up your act ask him to explore his sexuality with you,and don't be afraid to communicate your likes and dislikes.marriage is not fast food ,needs time and effort to marinate for all the flavours to come out.
2006-08-04 16:46:59 · answer #9 · answered by purpleknight2957 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It might mean that he has some unresolved psychological issues from trauma or events that happened when he was young.
Have you tried talking with him about how you hate it and why he does it?
2006-08-04 16:05:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
because its a way of getting arouse to the point that his imagination goes wild and you are there to make em all come true. plus its fun.
2006-08-04 16:47:14 · answer #11 · answered by super girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋