But he is my son-in-law and we do live in the same house. He doesn't make enough too support my daughter' so if I move my grandchildren will suffer,so what do I do? I really dont think we will ever get along, but I can't move out and support myself and help them like I can if I live with them. So what do I do go or stay.
2006-08-04 15:20:01 · 10 answers · asked by VVVVVVVVVVV 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
He is the step-father and an A1smart ***-------,they been on theirown before and they got evicted, he works in fast food and will not work two jobs. He does not care that he needs too do better , he says he doesn't care what I think.
2006-08-04 18:35:47 · update #1
You go. It's his responsibility to take care of his family. As long as you are there paying the bills, why should he? Be there to support your daughter and grandchildren emotionally, but you are entitled to enjoy your own home. As long as the children are not going hungry, let your daughter take responsibility for her own choices. God bless.
2006-08-04 15:24:42 · answer #1 · answered by Emm 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're the oldest and should know the most. Get out now. Do you really think you're helping your daughter by staying there when you hate her husband? You don't think that everyone knows how you feel and that you are just making the situation worse?
You took care of her until she was an adult. Now it's up to her to take care of her own children. If her husband can't support them and she can't/won't go out to work to help with the family finances, then that's her choice. You are acting like a crutch for her and her husband. They have to stand on their own four feet. Let them live their own lives while you leave all the strife behind and get your own life.
2006-08-04 22:30:27 · answer #2 · answered by CarolO 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Since he currently doesn't make enough to support your daughter, what is he doing to find better work with better pay? Does your daughter work too? Is he a good father besides the money issue? What type of work does he do? He should work toward finding something better if things are to improve.
2006-08-04 22:26:12 · answer #3 · answered by styymy_2000 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
As to your problem...yes a difficult one, the golden rule as below may be ?
but again I would point you to planet X. the earth is being made ready...and so must our spirits. for the earth change’s...end of the church age...dawn of the new. this planet last here at the time of Moses will again do its work may be and very likely in 2008.
After
The earth will be made a totally orientation to others only planet...the golden rule the complete message of Jesus ..do unto others as you would have done to you yourself
And yes The earth after will be open for all density angels and enteritis like Jesus to return and live openly among mankind in true peace
I am not sure why you credited me with that children bit in your answer re planet X in the bible ...it was not me
I get on well with children and just get them to do what they want before the pole turn changes most things
Blessings
2006-08-05 15:45:13 · answer #4 · answered by creativedynamic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look stop telling him to do better I know that sounds wierd but the truthis that If you keep pushing him he will resent you more than he does and do the oppisite of what you say insted try just telling him that no matter what happens you will be there to help and that you are glad for the effort he makes. Even if you dont think he makes enough let God be his judge not you
2006-08-12 15:15:40 · answer #5 · answered by LEAH 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
So what if you dont like him. you daughter does. and your grandchildren do. they are already suffering from knowing that one of the people they care about the most (aka you) dosnt even like the person that they love the most (aka daddy). get over whatever is between you, or your going to really hurt alot of people. talk to them about how them living with you is hurting you. im sure they care about you enough to want to make you happy again.
2006-08-04 22:33:17 · answer #6 · answered by berber 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Two women in one kitchen generally do not get on.
You do not mention what your daughter thinks about it, which is important.
Unforunately he is the head of the home ? and whose house is it ?
Should you's fight and argue, the children will suffer.Should you stay for their and your benefit, would you stop interfering , even though you might be right ?
You will have to come to a compromise, family talk, and swallow your pride to some extent, to keep reasonable peace, and stay, providing your daughter agrees.
2006-08-12 17:28:21 · answer #7 · answered by Featherman 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stay and be as annoying as you can until he gets TWO jobs just to get away from you!!
It is our job as parents to bother the living hell out of our children and spoil the grandkids.
2006-08-04 22:23:52 · answer #8 · answered by auntiegrav 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
your daughter made this choice. let her live her life with her dear hubby!! she will probably realise......that it was a wrong choice after all. you as a parent have done your best to look after your kid!! but you dont HAVE to look after your grndkids too and worry about them too. give yourself a break!!
2006-08-12 15:06:36 · answer #9 · answered by akshi 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
let them live their own life.They will learn!
2006-08-12 13:07:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋