I lived with this man for 7 yrs..he never ask me to marry him...now 2 months after the relationship ends.. he is getting married to someone else...what kind of man would do that..
2006-08-04 14:50:38 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Sorry but you should of wonder why you never married him or he wasn't asking you. He was seeing her all along my guess. And what kind of man would this be a PLAYER, JERK> ECT.
He never loved you at all just played it out.
2006-08-04 14:55:55 · answer #1 · answered by chrissy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems to me that maybe his feelings were elsewhere at the end of your relationship. Did you notice him becoming distant within the last couple months or last year?
Often, relationships take time to end. You may have been with him 7 years...but his feelings left the relationship after 6...and you guys were just basically staying with eachother because of the comfort zone.
So, in reality...him jumping into another relationship only a couple months later did not feel awkward to him...because he had basically moved on a while ago.
I am not saying he is right...he should have let you know how he felt and ended the relationship when he started losing feelings for you. That way it would have saved you both from wasting time on a relationship that was going nowhere.
2006-08-04 21:58:29 · answer #2 · answered by Julia 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say that this man did not love you in that kind of special feel like man and wife. He could have just take you as a companion. He is very selfish to have treated you in this way. Obviously he already had planning for himself way before that why he could get marry just 2 months after break. We woman are stronger than man in all ways, show it to him that without him you can live better and happier. He is not worth you to be sad or even a drop of tear. Move on, don't ever look back.
2006-08-04 21:59:36 · answer #3 · answered by Trouble 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a common pattern for people. In a long relationship, leave and marry soon thereafter. Possibly they see the error of being in a long engagement after leaving it. It is always hard on the person left.
And yes he did love you.
2006-08-04 21:56:18 · answer #4 · answered by Dennis Fargo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The question is not if he loved you.....but if he respected you. And obviously he didn't. The only type of man who does that needs to be taken out in a dark wooded area away from civilization and beaten by twenty women and left there for the dogs or wolves.
2006-08-04 21:54:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
One who used you and played the side dish, and of course some one real stupid... He must have known her before you came along or never left them to start with and they knew nothing of yyou too, or he just played the we share and apartment together till she gets on her feet again thing with them and the question never came about again, you should tell her how long you two were together and in a relationship that consisted of more then just living together. Or maybe he thought you were way to cool and didnt really see himself as going to be your husband, or may be you lead him to believe you were not ready to marry yet so he moved on and i must say in the wrong way he shouldnt have played you that way ....
2006-08-04 21:57:53 · answer #6 · answered by Rocco 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may have but the relationship ended before the 7yrs and he found someone new which he may do the same to her be glad he is gone.
2006-08-04 22:27:46 · answer #7 · answered by LJ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe after he broke up with he realised he wanted to get married before it was too late. Maybe he moved fast in his current relationship because he realised he didnt want to waste any time, since 7 years went by in his realtionship with you and resulting in a break up. I dont doubt that he loved you. Mabe hes rebounding with this other marraige.
2006-08-04 21:55:52 · answer #8 · answered by T-Jay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what kind of man would do that..? probably the kind that was 2 timing you for quite some time....he probably did love you at one time, but met this chick somewhere along the road...my recommendation to you, hon? Look at it this way, better now than somewhere down the road...and consider this, would you really want someone like this...he's an ââÏÏ!!!!
count your losses and move on...you're much too good for this clod...consider yourself lucky and get you someone who REALLY deserves you!ââ¥ââ¥
2006-08-04 21:59:13 · answer #9 · answered by Kiss my Putt! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He never did love you, just the sex. A guy like that will also cheat on his next wife to be ans the pattern will continue until he grows up.
2006-08-04 21:54:46 · answer #10 · answered by djensen92000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋