Do you like effeminate boys/men?

Question

I don't mean very girly boys or very femenine ones, I mean not masculine guys...

Answer 1

I do. Dunno why, but I love 'em.

Answer 2

Not sure if you're asking this of men or women, but to answer your question, I do like slightly effeminate men. I have a big crush on a guy I know who is just a tad effeminate. Somehow, the slight bit of femininity he shows actually enhances the things about him that are masculine. I've had guys tell me the same thing in reverse. I've always been a bit of a tomboy type, and some guys have told me it's wildly attractive to them and makes me seem MORE feminine than the really girly-girls (in a more natural way, I guess.) Go figure !

Answer 3

I have no problem with guys that are not big and manly . I tend to like the smaller famed and more submissive guys . The men who are too effeminate get under my skin , If I wanted a woman I would have found one , but the guys who are not as masculine are a turn on for me .

Answer 4

I like really girly boys. There was a boy at school who was sooo girly, he wore his hair in a bob and would flick his head in such a girly way. He was so sweet and gorgeous and had the cutest butt as well.

Answer 5

Well I don't like the way they act but I don't think they can help it and if they are my friend I just try to have they back and look out for them I would not let anybody pick on them because of it. So that's the best i can say on that subject I treat everyone fair.

Answer 6

No. If I wanted something that acted like a woman, I would be with an actual woman.

I, however, do enjoy a strong masculine personality that I could relate with. It kind of makes me feel more protected and secure.

Answer 7

Not a lot. But I once filled in a pseudo-psychological questionnaire and the results indicated that I was a man! Which I'm not and I'm not lesbian either. Maybe that's why I like a man to be a man and not a wimp.

Answer 8

Yes yes yes, I HATE the machoistic masculine guys, they annoy me, and I find the more effeminate, more emotional boys so much more attractive, physically AND mentally.

Answer 9

Like.... meaning they are nice to talk to, etc?
Or Like... meaning want to have a relationship with them?

I'm a mature happily-married woman with grown children.
There is a man at work who is young enough to be my son... he says he is gay... he is a very nice person. I like him. I like to talk to him. He is very popular because he has a nice personality. I have let him know I'm not crazy about hearing stories about his lifestyle, and he respects that. He is always the first one to compliment the ladies when they have a new dress or hairstyle. He is very nice to have around.

Answer 10

Yes. I think it boils down to "realness", if a man is not manly, but tries to act like it, then that's fake and it's hard to respect that. Being who you are inside out - that's always attractive. Some will like it, some won't, but the ones who do are the ones who matter!

Answer 11

Yes. I like them. I am a female, not gay. I have two effiminate guys that are a part of my life. They were into the gay life style but are out of it. They both have gotten married to ladies that are good friends of mine. I can talk to theses guys about anything! Some of my female friends, I can't talk to them like I can these guys and nothing embarrasses them. I can cry on their shoulders if I have to and they were there in times of sorrow in my life.