Even though I'm young and want to marry, I probally have the best reason why. I have an illness that's life threating, but not threating to others. My days of life will be shorter than the average human's life span, so I don't know when I'ma go. But I do love him and he loves me and I belive thats what counts.
Peace & Love
Mrs.Hawkk,
Serious answers please
2006-08-04 14:38:09 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Hun, I couldn't have said it better myself... follow your heart... and be happy in whatever you decide.. do not let us be the voice of reason for you. God bless you in how ever long god decides to keep you on this earth and be happy for as long as you can be.
NOTE: For those of you that said wait did you not read the part about her illness..... you should be wishing this woman as much happiness as she can have. Yes god may change the tide at any moment but tomorrow is not guaranteed to any of us.
2006-08-04 14:42:38 · answer #1 · answered by kitkool 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If this person loves you & wants to marry you as well, I say go for it! Why not? It'd be special & you could both enjoy each other as much as possible before your time comes. Even if you didn't have a life threatening illness, you could die tomorrow. You could get into a car accident, you could get kidnapped & murdered, you could choke on a chicken bone, or you could even be sitting at home & have a plane crash into your home! There would be no point in not doing what you would like to & enjoying your life to the fullest just because you may die sooner & more likely than the average life span. Good luck to you & your guy, I wish the very best!
2006-08-04 14:45:46 · answer #2 · answered by ~*Lady Beth*~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how young are you? if you're under 20 don't think of marrying someone so soon. because you never know if you actually do meet the right person, because most of the teen relationships are puppy love. You're only ready to marry if you're financially and emotionally ready. Also it's not just the love in marriage, marriage is a lot of things combine together, communication, trust, honesty, and have to be faithful, also marriage should only be happening once in the life time, so take these things into consideration and see if you're ready to get married. People think you can just get a divorce if things don't work out, well that means they lied to god when they vowed, people who get divorced they never taken the vows into consideration. Most couples tend to think you can just get a divorce when there are problems, that's why today's society the divorce rate is so high. so please think carefully when you're thinking of getting married. Divorce isn't the answer to everything. only the extreme problems, like.. your spouse cheating on you, or abusing you physically...etc something extreme. So think carefully and good luck.
2006-08-04 14:45:15 · answer #3 · answered by superboredom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no- regardless of what many doctors say, life is not set in stone, things change, people change, cures can be found, and alas some people overcome illnesses. Dont rush what you have. Doesnt mean you cant enjoy what you have now, or that you cant still love him. But wait for the right time, and he will to if he truely loves you. True love waits. I waited nearly 4 years for mine to come around, and because I waited I knew he was the one for me. Remember that when someone is in love they see things through rose colored glasses. Meaning- things may appear differently then they truely are. But once you take those glasses off and your sure hes the one, then I wish you both much happiness in your future. And I to hope that you live a nice long life as well.
2006-08-04 14:44:48 · answer #4 · answered by cats4ever2k1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not sure why you want to get married? What purpose will this serve? Why not just live together...I suspect your life will be more rewarding and the relationship surer. I am not being callous. Try it out to see how it works for a year or two..if good, then go ahead. IF your life is short, you do not want to waste one minute of it in a marriage that goes bad...what a terrible thing to have happen to you. I wish you be very best of luck, but really, marriage is NOT what you may think it is ... people tend to take eachother for granted once that ring is on the finger...IF my life were to be short, I would want the person I love to be on their toes day and night to keep me from walking out. Dear, peace and love.
2006-08-04 15:23:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having a life threatening illness is no reason to get married. Is being married that important??? You had better focus on life and living. Being married may put an additional financial burden on him if you have a real life threatening illness. But, in the end, only you and he can make that decision.
2006-08-04 14:44:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go ahead and marry him if you guys really love each other. Do you feel like you collected enough experience with different people, because if not you may regret it after you married. I say, hey go ahead, if it doesn't fit there is always the possibility of a divorce. Nowadays marriage doesn't force you to be together forever.
2006-08-04 14:43:07 · answer #7 · answered by naddel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well life is short and in your case its even more true.....i personally think people should live their life to the fullest while their young and go partying and clubing and pubbing all they want when there young before they ever think about being tied down.......but if your happy the way your living your life and your having fun and you really trully love him then you should go for it.....i dont know how old you are.....lets say your 18 to 20 years old and you got 10 years left and your having fun then go for it......if your that age and you got more than 10 years then think about it more carefully and just go for it.......a lot of people plan their lives but they should do more living in the moment.......so go wild and have a great life
2006-08-04 14:46:13 · answer #8 · answered by anonymous 27 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think of in the event that they actually love one yet another, it is effective. Love IS blind, and that they could particularly be head over heels for an further. If we at the instant are not in the area, then we've not any precise to decide. So the respond to question..... i think of they could desire to, in the event that they desire to.
2016-11-03 22:10:10 · answer #9 · answered by harib 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would be easier to give you some serious advice if you told us your age, his age, and your physical condition. What are the treatment options for your illness. I'm sure that you know that you cannot live on love alone. Also, depending on your condition are there plans for children—how old will they likely be if you leave them.
2006-08-04 14:46:36 · answer #10 · answered by DrB 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋