I don't get it. I see so many people who hang on to relationships that are not healthy and sometimes downright abusive. Why do people need to be in a relationships in order to feel complete? I mean if you have a desire to have sex, then have sex or masturbate or something... if you are lonely, hang out with friends or family! Why do people stay with a significant other when that significant other brings all kinds of drama to their life? Are people that scared of being single? Getting involved with someone who is not right is the reason so many people get divorced! I mean it's common logic! Sometimes I think fellow humans are so stupid! I would personally be a lot happier being single than I would be in a relationship with someone I'm not compatible with. I'll get involved with someone when I meet someone I think I can get along with and be myself around and vice versa... Seems like I'm one in a million...Does anyone else feel me on this???
2006-08-04 14:27:55 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I hear you! I value my single life and love every minute of it!
2006-08-04 14:32:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 2⤋
Well not one in a million but very special all the same having relationships is knitted into the creation of mankind God saw that man was alone so he created him a help mate it's been that way for all time . The problem that relation ships face are not new either for I my self don 't know a single relation ship that is with out conflict for every one is different and that is good too. What people have to learn to do is put others above them selves not easy but really necessary
Now don t get me wrong don t allow yourself to be abused and by all means don t rush into relationships take time with the ones you meet and introduce them to parents , family and friends and ask them what they think but before all things PRAY PRAY and PRAY somemore
2006-08-04 22:03:53 · answer #2 · answered by TIM J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life is unfair and cruel and it is just a fact. You are either a user or you are the one getting used. You are either stepping on heads or it's your head getting stepped on. And believe me nobody cares.
2006-08-04 21:40:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel the same way you do... however, there are too many reasons to say... mainly people value their self worth by who they're with.... i.e. if someone wants them, they're happy, etc....
2006-08-04 21:34:02 · answer #4 · answered by heidielizabeth69 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, follish little humans running around and clinging to everything they can latch their greedy little claws on
almost pathetic
2006-08-04 21:41:13 · answer #5 · answered by zether 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who knows...
2006-08-04 21:35:03 · answer #6 · answered by Completly in love... 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋