How do I get over the death of my mother, who was my best friend. I feel so lost.?

Answer 1

Well I will tell u what I tell everyone else with this problem ok? My mother also passed 2 years ago.. We hardley ever got along. But I do miss her terribley! I just look back at all the good times we had and it makes me smile and cry.. But hey, crying is a good stress reliever! Sometimes I like to believe that she is near me and I will talk to her.. Not in public or anything but... Just looking back at all the good times will make it easier and u know she would not want u to be so upset for she is in a happy place now and she wants ur happiness also.. I am truly sorry

Answer 2

My mother died when I was 17 yr old and she was my best friend... I have to say you never get over it... Till this day I still think alot about her.... You just learn how to live with it... I am now 26yrs old and I still miss her alot.. I still cry sometimes.. But it gets easier as the days goes by.. Just don't give up and Remember she is watching over you... You know she would not want you to be sad even thou I know it's hard.. Just think of the good times you shared with her.. Think of something silly she did that made you laugh that is what I do and it kinda helps...But I am sorry for your lost and I know the feeling.. If you would like to talk you can contact me anytime...

Answer 3

Dearest Rae, I haven't had the trial of losing my dear parents as of yet,but that doesn't stop me from attempting to offer a kind word.Know that death is a matter decreed for every created thing.And often times we don't understand that death is not a bad thing.Rather than try and get over the death of your mother,try and allow others to witness the benefits that you were favored with from that great friendship that you were fortunate to have had.That from your actions people will be allowed to take note that indeed,one of the most excellent of all people,a title that is honored in life and death is,"Mother".And,God Willing, you will have aided someone who may need a gentle nudge to appreciate the time that they have with their mother.And know also that God is forever Alive,and He never Dies.But to Him all must return.

Answer 4

Well sorry but its part of life.My grandmother died June 17,06 and i thought i would die to ,it had to be the toughest time of my life.And the funeral was the worst. I never thought I would get through it but you do .And life goes on ,to this day I hear her voice and remember her words of wisdom .My grandmother died in front of me and that was real hard she got up came to breakfast she ate then one second later she was gone .She had a massive stroke we did not know what happened.I tried everything to wake her.Then I called 911 and found out about the stroke. She was alive but in a coma and the doctors said that she would never regain.So we had to make a discussion to stop the feeding tubes.Wow that was hard,it was like killing her a second time .And then 8 days later at 4am in the morning she died ,And Wow what a day ,I do not wish this on my enemy.If you want to read more about it .Check out my 360 I have her obituary there and

Answer 5

Rae your mom is with her father God and she will be there antill you come, she will wait you and then you could be together again, we are all father God children's and one day we all go to his home, where we could feel his love and lirn for new life to be better person.
In this time try to have her in your heart and feel her love for u and from ours God, for now you have to stay here on earth to do what ours father want's from you-us. Your mom is still your bast friend and she is with you all the time, is just u don't know that. We can't see God's souls, but 1 day we will. So love her and if u need to talk to her just talk and she will here avrething and try to feel her what she will tell you for whatever you need.
God bless you and all people and all ANIMALS!!!
And don't forget to take care of your self.
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Answer 6

I am so sorry for your loss. Only time will heal you. And give your self time to grieve. Everyone is different with grief some take longer then others. Prayer, friends, and family keep them close. And if you need to talk to a professional, or your priest. Remember she is always watching over you. God Bless you are in my prayers.

Answer 7

omg..thats sad. i know it sounds mean, but get over it! your moms in a much better place now. i know you'll probably have a lot of hard times doing this, but you have people who love you out in the world. spend more time with your friends and your dad, and then think of your mom as like a memory. i mean, if she was there, she'd probably want you to be strong and go out in the world..right? good luck. hope you get better.

Answer 8

i would think of all the wonderful things u and ur mother did together. i just lost a person in my imediate family not too long ago so u have my sympathies.

Answer 9

well i had the same thing happen but it was my daddy. i love him and miss him so much! i went to a priest and told him everything and then i went to my pop`s grave and gave him a flower that my mother loved that was blessed by the priest and as i put it down i heard him say bye i love your mother and see you in your heart. then i got over it. i love him so much.

Answer 10

Time heals the pain... memories and love will always be in your heart.. talk to a professional not yahoo people. Good luck.