how can i make my bf stop being so jealous??

Question

i need help how can i make my boyfriend to stop being jealous. on 4th of july my faraway boycousin came and we huged 4 about 5 minutes and i told him i missed him we were having fun talking then my boyfriend came and aked me who he was i told him his my cousin he told me not to lie he didn't belive me....i was just so happy that he was here i just didn't get mad so we were having fun he asked me out to dance i was like ok ....my cousin..me..my best friend...were having fun...then my boyfriend came and asked me why was i dancing i told him to have fun i don't want to be mad..then my cousin came and told me that he was jealous what do i do???

Answer 1

You cannot make your boy friend stop being jealous. The only person whose behavior you can control is your own. If, deep in your heart, you know that your behavior was proper and no cause for jealousy, you have a choice. You can continue with your boy friend and take the accusations, anger, and jealousy which I promise will get worse and worse and never better. Or, you can require respect, gentleness, caring, support, and comfort (you have to give those things too) and if the guy can't give you those it's "Hit the road toad."

Answer 2

Jealous of your cousin, be careful with that cause he can end up bieng overprotective and possesive.....oh, and you can't change that, that's just how he is.