wants to leave his family.I know he cheated with this army hood rat and still talks to her.The other woman don't compare to his wife.She gets around with all the guys in the military.Should I tell his wife so she can do better for her and the kids.And no I'm not interseted in the wife.I just don't want her and the kids to hurt.I've been there.
2006-08-04 13:53:51 · 9 answers · asked by rob b 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Your friend has some growing up to do. I think you should have a talk with him. You're in a tough situation, he might accuse you of wanting his woman. He might become angry with you and try to transfer some type of guilt to you. Either way, you need to remind him how wrong he is.
Truth always comes out. He's going to slip up. This puts you in a tough situation. The wife might even become angry with you, simply because you knew from the beginning. I'm guessing you are friends with him and the wife.
Here is another situation, he needs to be careful of transmitting some sexual disease or infection. He puts his family in jeopardy by being a horny dog. Tell him that.
2006-08-04 15:12:33 · answer #1 · answered by *~*~*~~~His Angel~~~*~*~* 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋
This puts you in a really awkward moment because your friends. The wife might take it out on you as well. So be care full what you say. Your going to kill her, what she thinks is a, happy family by telling her this. Tell her that her husband isn't feeling happy and they should talk about it. Let her make the decision.
2006-08-04 21:03:16 · answer #2 · answered by FunnyGuyInside 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I see why you want to tell her but in her heart I am very sure she knows. Most women do know when they are being cheated on and mistreated. You also have to ask yourself are you ready to let go of your best friend? If you really feel she should know then do it in a discreet way that way you are not 100 percent involved. Send pictures, or have someone do a anonymous phone call. Good luck to you on your situation.
2006-08-04 21:07:59 · answer #3 · answered by adkfoaiefnafedw 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I really would not tell his wife nothing. You should talk with your friend and tell him what you think but I would say leave it up to him to tell his wife. Unless you just don't care about the friendship then spill the beans to her but remember when you do that you might as well say good bye to your friendship.
2006-08-04 22:54:09 · answer #4 · answered by jazzy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think in this situation you need to have a good heart to heart with your friend. Let him know that you think he is in the wrong and give him and altimatum either he gets himself out of the situation honestly or you will do it for him. Explain that what he is doing is not fair to his kids and he needs to be a man for there sake and his. When you have kids you are no longer a kid yourself.
2006-08-04 21:01:59 · answer #5 · answered by Lill" Bit 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sooner or later they get it and it will hit the fan and the child support oohhhhh the child support that all I have to say is it worth it?
2006-08-04 22:01:48 · answer #6 · answered by chrissy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not tell his wife. Give that husband enough rope and he'll hang himself on this one.
2006-08-04 20:58:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should tell your friend to be a man... be responsible for being a dad and being a husband...
2006-08-04 20:59:23 · answer #8 · answered by christopher d 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I bet it hurt like hell for him to have a baby....
2006-08-04 21:41:18 · answer #9 · answered by jackssailor 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋